@georgeob1,
I could be wrong, but I believe we do not see this country the same way. While those living here can contribute up to their abilities, and live much more comfortably than those in many other countries, including the British commoners, this country is still in the business of making money for those that own and run the country. And, who might that be? In my opinion, white Protestants; specifically those that sociologists call the in-groups, i.e., Episcopaleans and Presbyterians. Methodists running second, and Baptists not so much. Jews and Catholics, again in my opinion, live comfortably, but only are in positions of power if they serve the needs of the WASP power elite.
If you notice, that from the time that Kennedy was assassinated, we have had no Catholic Presidents, and the current Catholic VP, in my opinion, really is not the same as earlier VP's that ultimately might run for the Presidency. Do you see a need for a Catholic VP for the current administration?
So, since there is still a WASP majority in the country that looks back nostalgically to mother England, there will be interest in the Royals and England for a long time to come.
Is it by coincidence that so many Catholics make the Navy their career? Not in my mind. Going back to WWII, the Navy was considered the branch of service that was most "ethnic friendly," as I have heard time, and time again.
I do not expect you, or anyone, to agree with my perceptions, but that is my opinion, from my observations in the military where one's social class seemed to be a palpable reality most often to upper-class Protestants.
And Catholics have their own social distinctions; however, it seems to revolve around the Church and its programs/charities/orders/concerns.
This in no way makes me less happy to be an American. I believe what makes Jews different is that they may be the one group where a majority do not see the Presidency as something they want a co-religionist to be in. I believe many other groups do want one of theirs to one day be in the Oval Office.
So, Izzy should not see you as some sort of aristocrat, in my opinion. You, like me, are not in the running. In my opinion, you optimized the system well, since the U.S. allows people to be "included," rather than Europe's historical "exclusion." Just my opinion.
Lastly, I always felt that just because there is no real "No Nothing Party," it doesn't mean that I, or many others "arrived." Under the surface, I believe there are still divisions that are alive and well. But, fortunately, we are living in the U.S.; that's the good news.