@Phoenix32890,
Thanks all of you!!!
You've set my mind straight. I was picking up on a few red flags and Phoenix you picked up on the same one as me.
Trouble is I should trust my instinct sooner. I always try to think the best or look at ways where it might be my fault, give the benefit of the doubt.
Like you say even though it's xmas so what and is he worried about whether he should contact first? I need to get stronger!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
All I feel like he's doing is punishing me. It takes me back!!!!! De ja vu!