@cicerone imposter,
The primary subject is "California Voters Approve Gay-Marriage Ban". There's nothing to discuss. It was a fact.
I am objecting to the use of the word "marriage" in this context. Doing so brings in a lot of other words and ideas. "Love" for example. Or "sexual intercourse". Rex uses the word "love" to characterise his relationship with a man and there is no way it means the same as the love of a man for a woman or a woman for a man.
I am in the same company as the population of 44 states and those of the vast majority of countries.
The financial benefits of official recognition of homosexual unions being equal to those of marriage constitutes an inducement to the former and government policy in every western country in the last 100 years has been designed as an inducement to the latter.
The problem is that, at bottom, the subject of marriage is sordid and you lot are playing around with euphemisms and affectations. Ever since Bernard Shaw had the nerve to follow Darwin/Science to the logical conclusion of stud-farm procedures for producing the next generation there has been a profound fear of the subject. The "union" between two people is always something of an illusion when given a label. The parties are, and will remain, discreet individuals.
It is a very complex subject. Pretending it is simple is just a cop out.
Why do homosexuals want to be "married" when them being so renders the word meaningless. It also means that homosexuals who don't choose to be "married" are discriminated against by the homosexuals who choose to be "married". If homosexuals are no different from heterosexuals why do we use these terms? They stigmatise themselves by using the word homosexual to decribe themselves.
If heterosexual couples can live together without being married, by the millions, why can't homosexual couples.
What is the sub-text here. You're playing around with the matter in order to flatter yourselves.
Jane Austen's justly famous opening sentence to Pride and Prejudice reads--"‘It is a truth universally acknowledged, that a single man in possession of a good fortune, must be in want of a wife.’"
Decode that ci into plain English.
Charlotte Brontë found Pride and Prejudice a disappointment, she wrote that the book was "... a carefully fenced, highly cultivated garden, with neat borders and delicate flowers; but ... no open country, no fresh air, no blue hill, no bonny beck."
The difference is between country house bonnet and rustic reality. You are into country house bonnet with Ms Austen's delicious and disgraceful irony. You've read too many women's magazines ci. and watched too much Lady TV.
Why is women's sport a separate category? Why are women's toilets off limits to men when they have more money spent on them than men's toilets do and are cleaner and better appointed?
Equality and justice are just badges you wear and have no meaning in real life. They are mere excuses to justify having found a way to annoy people.
Occasionally in England one might be driving through the country lanes on a nice summer afternoon and come across 50 0r more cars queued up behind some dickhead in a pony and trap going at 8 mph. He is exercising his rights. In every car the occupants would vote to stop the silly sod, release his pony and throw him and his trap over the nearest hedge.
Be very careful with "rights". They are music in the ears of trouble-makers, boat-rockers and barrack-room lawyer types who are continually on the look out for novel ways to annoy people.