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California Voters Approve Gay-Marriage Ban

 
 
Walter Hinteler
 
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Reply Mon 13 Jun, 2011 09:23 am
@spendius,
spendius wrote:
I don't recognise any marriage unless conducted in a church.


That's certainly what most religious people think.
But to get any of legal, social, tax .... name it ... advantages, it's worth nothing. In a secular country, at least.
revelette
 
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Reply Mon 13 Jun, 2011 09:46 am
@spendius,
Quote:
I don't recognise any marriage unless conducted in a church.


The marriage ceremony is just that, a ceremony, it does not say anywhere in the NT you have to be married in a church, nor is there any example of Christians being married in a church in the early start of Christianity in the Bible.





Foofie
 
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Reply Mon 13 Jun, 2011 10:03 am
@revelette,
revelette wrote:

Quote:
I don't recognise any marriage unless conducted in a church.


The marriage ceremony is just that, a ceremony, it does not say anywhere in the NT you have to be married in a church, nor is there any example of Christians being married in a church in the early start of Christianity in the Bible.








Marriage for Catholics is a sacrament, I thought. Marriage for Jews and Moslems is a contract actually signed by both husband and wife.

Perhaps, "church" refers to "a religion," not an edifice? Married "by the church" might be what was being inferred?
cicerone imposter
 
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Reply Mon 13 Jun, 2011 10:08 am
@revelette,
I guess these people never heard of a civil ceremony or common law marriage.
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RexRed
 
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Reply Mon 13 Jun, 2011 10:11 am
@Foofie,
Foofie wrote:

revelette wrote:

Quote:
I don't recognise any marriage unless conducted in a church.


The marriage ceremony is just that, a ceremony, it does not say anywhere in the NT you have to be married in a church, nor is there any example of Christians being married in a church in the early start of Christianity in the Bible.








Marriage for Catholics is a sacrament, I thought. Marriage for Jews and Moslems is a contract actually signed by both husband and wife.

Perhaps, "church" refers to "a religion," not an edifice? Married "by the church" might be what was being inferred?
Early Christians did not have "churches". Their church services were held in the home and were done often in secret.

In the new testament at one point an angry mob of people is called a "Church" (ekklesia).

Today's Christians want to revise Christianity to fit their fearful outlandish hatreds. It has nothing to do with the biblical Jesus, his teachings or the first century church.
RexRed
 
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Reply Mon 13 Jun, 2011 10:27 am
Nowhere in the pages of the canonical Bible is an actual marriage ceremony detailed even once. They are alluded to but you would think if God wanted marriage set in stone that writhing about it in reasonable detail would have been the way to do it. No exchange of rings, walking down the isle, bachelor parties and bridal showers, garter belts being thrown, wedding cake etc...

There is talk of some sort of "canopy" but no none really know for sure what this means and a bride is called "a crown to her husband" and again, there is no real explanation as to what this means and how it fits into any type of ceremony.

It is interesting to note that Jesus was made to wear a crown of thorns...
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cicerone imposter
 
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Reply Mon 13 Jun, 2011 10:39 am
@RexRed,
Outlandish is spot on! They can't see their own discrimination and hate against other humans based on some cockamamee message in a book they call their holy bible. Why is it that they must try to control other people's lives against equality? Christianity is an oxymoron.
spendius
 
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Reply Mon 13 Jun, 2011 11:03 am
@Walter Hinteler,
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But to get any of legal, social, tax .... name it ... advantages, it's worth nothing.


How do you get "advantages" unless at the expense of others? The "advantages" are in the way of sugar lumps to donkeys. It's really romantic. It's funny watching you all reduce marriage to a meat market and at the same time trying to raise it up to some ideal dreamstate.
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spendius
 
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Reply Mon 13 Jun, 2011 11:34 am
@cicerone imposter,
Explain to me ci. why my not recognising marriage unless within sacred precincts and conducted by authorised ministers, shamen if you like, and being for life, has anything to do with "discrimination and hate against other humans". I know loads of people who went through civil ceremonies only and who consider themselves married and I don't discriminate against them and I am quite fond of most of them. And I don't try to control them either.

Am I not entitled to my view, which is shared by many hundreds of millions of people, 70 million Americans included, without you commenting on it in that logically ridiculous and intemperate manner? Is it a sore point with you?

As for equality--what can anybody say. You jetting off to examine the world while the US has 900,000 homeless children. We all know what you mean by equality. Nothing. A mere rhetorical flourish requiring a presumption on your part of a stupid audience.

spendius
 
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Reply Mon 13 Jun, 2011 11:37 am
@spendius,
If I can reduce the number of times you make your sister cry it will be worth my efforts.
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cicerone imposter
 
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Reply Mon 13 Jun, 2011 11:39 am
@spendius,
Because, under law, civil marriages and common law marriages are accepted in this country.

Homeless children can result from both parents getting killed in an accident or divorced. Over 50% of marriages end up in divorce. What's so sacred about marriage? Two people in love shouldn't have outsiders denying them the right to a marriage.
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Walter Hinteler
 
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Reply Mon 13 Jun, 2011 11:46 am
@spendius,
In Germany, nearly 25% of all marriages are followed by a wedding in a church. (2008 data)

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At Christmas 2005 (source, there may be newer data) 120,000 children "woke up homeless" in the UK.


cicerone imposter
 
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Reply Mon 13 Jun, 2011 11:48 am
@Walter Hinteler,
This might help resolve the Prop 8 issue.

Quote:
Ethics rules don't violate free speech, Supreme Court says
By Joan Biskupic, USA TODAY

Updated 1h 46m ago |

WASHINGTON — The Supreme Court ruled unanimously Monday that state ethics rules barring public officials from voting on matters because of a conflict of interest do not violate free speech rights.

In a decision highlighting the nation's history of preventing officials from participating because of personal conflicts, the justices reversed a Nevada Supreme Court ruling that said voting in council meetings or other legislative arenas was protected by the First Amendment.

The Nevada court, in a decision that used a novel approach to legislators' speech rights, had struck down a state ethics law as unconstitutionally overbroad.

Writing for the Supreme Court, Justice Antonin Scalia said recusal rules such as Nevada's have been commonplace for more than 200 years and never thought to infringe on speech rights.

"Voting is not a symbolic action," Scalia said, as he read portions of his opinion from the bench, "as is, for example, the burning of a flag."

More specifically to the legislative role, Scalia said that when a public official votes "he does so not as an individual but as a political representative engaged in the legislative process. Acting in that capacity, his vote is not his own speech but a mechanical function of government."
spendius
 
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Reply Mon 13 Jun, 2011 01:17 pm
@Walter Hinteler,
I wasn't spouting about equality Walt.
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spendius
 
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Reply Mon 13 Jun, 2011 01:31 pm
@cicerone imposter,
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This might help resolve the Prop 8 issue.


It was resolved. Some judge reversed the result but I haven't heard anything about it since. Scalia's judgement confirms Prop 8 doesn't it?

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Same-sex_marriage_in_California
cicerone imposter
 
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Reply Mon 13 Jun, 2011 02:21 pm
@spendius,
No, you really don't understand US laws. Most law professors have also said that the defenders of Prop 8 have no leg to stand on. One cannot overturn what Walker did simply because he is a gay man. On the other side of the coin, Prop 8 defenders are saying all sexual issues must be ruled by heterosexuals - which makes no sense. That's because you come from the same basic beliefs which is ruled by your religious beliefs. That has nothing to do with the US Constitution. All have equal freedom at free speech regardless of their sexual orientation.
farmerman
 
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Reply Mon 13 Jun, 2011 04:15 pm
@cicerone imposter,
and the sec 3 of the DOMA has been declared Unconstitutional until Boner (Speaker of the House) put his support to uphold it. Now I believe DOMA is in the USSC. no?
Obama admin said they wouldnt enforce it.
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spendius
 
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Reply Mon 13 Jun, 2011 05:18 pm
@cicerone imposter,
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Prop 8 defenders are saying all sexual issues must be ruled by heterosexuals - which makes no sense.


And they won the vote. Are you saying that one homosexual judge can overturn a majority vote. If the other side had won the vote I would defend them from attacks by a heterosexual judge who tried that sort of stunt although I doubt one would.

If I was a homosexual I would have voted for Prop 8. I wouldn't want lumping in with the henpecked husbands and that's for sure. I could end up pegging the washing out instead of posing in my studded leather gear.
cicerone imposter
 
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Reply Mon 13 Jun, 2011 05:38 pm
@spendius,
Grow up! Most Californians favor same sex marriage - today. If you're talking about what the majority wants, you lose. Polls have been taken on this subject, and over 50% favor same sex marriage.

From the LA Times.
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Support in polls for same-sex marriage could influence Proposition 8 legal battle, experts say
Recent polls showing majority support for same sex marriage could have an effect on judges as the legal fight against Proposition 8 moves through the courts, experts and advocates say.

Opponents of Proposition 8 rally outside San Francisco City Hall in August last year after a ruling in their favor. As the issue makes its way through the justice system -- probably to the Supreme Court in a couple of years -- some experts say that recent polls indicating majority support for gay marriage could subtly influence judges.

May 23, 2011|By Carol J. Williams, Los Angeles Times

A series of recent polls suggesting a majority of Americans support the right of gays to marry may influence the outcome of the legal dispute over California's ban on same-sex marriages, some legal experts and gay rights advocates predict.

The courts don't look to opinion polls when they decide cases, but shifts in popular sentiment can influence their thinking on evolving interpretations of civil rights, constitutional experts say.
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Ionus
 
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Reply Mon 13 Jun, 2011 07:46 pm
@RexRed,
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It is not that hard to determine someones sexual activity when they are written about with "words" by supposed "disciples" who claim to be "eyewitnesses" and whose testimony is referred to as "gospel".
Which Gospel ? There are some that were not accepted as gospel, perhaps because they knew more about them then we do now .

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I am still wondering why Peter denied Jesus so many times before the cock crowed twice.
Because the Romans were looking for someone to crucify... Roman soldiers had been murdered in Jerusalem .
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