@RexRed,
So now you are guilty of the same type of ridiculous panic and fearmongering that those who opposed gay marriage are guilty of.
You are saying that it is not possible for a gay couple to have a committed relationship unless they can get married.
You are saying that not being allowed to marry will destroy the gay community, because gays cant control themselves unless they get married.
You need to realize that this vote will not destroy the gay community anymore then the opposite result would have destroyed the straight community.
You do yourself no favors by trying to spread panic and fear about what will happen, because you now sound like the anti gay marriage idiots.