@RexRed,
Quote:No, Spendi women are not tiring.. I know your words are only a trap, I am not stupid. The sad thing is you really seem to have an unhealthy view of women...
It is certainly a sad thing that you can't stop yourself from passing an opinion and then drawing the obvious conclusion from it as if the original opinion is a correct one. It's pathetic actually for someone of your age. It is a sad thing if I do have an unhealthy view of women. Obviously. It's just that I don't have an unhealthy view of women. I have a realistic view of the lovely, little darlings. Which is healthy and produces an attitude of respect modified by a degree of trepidation. No "seem" about it.
Your view is unrealistic. I derives from soppy, sentimentality culled from numerous sources and involves some refined selectivity on your part as you boasted of earlier. And also, I gather, from you having no experience of women at close quarters such as I have unfortunately been constrained by my general orientation to have been subjected to for many long years. If the joys of such an experience outweigh the suffering it is simply because the real thing has been absent. The real thing is exceedingly trying.
Here is what Oswald Spengler wrote--
Quote:This secret and fundamental war of the sexes has gone on ever since there were sexes, and will continue--silent, bitter, unforgiving, pitiless--while they continue.
Not having participated in the war yourself you won't know what he was talking about. You'll just fling an unoriginal pejorative at him.
Another professor, Germaine Greer, said that all men are rapists and that women don't know how much men hate them. She likened men to carrots because they are as cheap and plentiful and as easy to cook.
Julie Burchill said, on TV, sat next to her ex-husband, that all she ever felt was a "little local irritation".
We don't know who the woman was you quoted yesterday.
"What drives me to you", Dylan sang for millions, "drives me insane". But he was singing of Isis. Your cardboard cut-out woman does exactly what you want or she is seen off. Even the male homosexuals you have displayed for us are young, smiling pretty boys. You're working on stereotypes rather than flesh and blood. And ones that fit your bill in every respect.
Quote:Women are no greater or less than men.
They are much greater than us.
Quote:Like how your dad explains when you are young, you will know the right one when you feel fireworks inside.
My father would never have dreamed of broaching such a subject. And fireworks need to be more and more exciting as time passes.
Books are only static when you want them to be. Good books anyway and who has time to read bad ones.
Declarations of love are like staking out a land claim. They put the victims under pressure. The wildness is tamed. Everything made just as you choose.
And going with your reading of "trying" as "tiring, women are exhausting if you do your duty by them.
Most people know what Hamlet said to Ophelia and the nature of a pair of King Lear's daughters.
You are well advised to keep away from women if you have an alternative.