@mismi,
thanx a lot ! that really makes sense. i am in a process of healing myself. i agree that looks is not the priority, substance is. i was jus very misguided by the person he was potraying and the real him, which came out after marriage. his looks i considered a bonus to what he was, a loving, caring & dedicated person. which in itself was a big lie. anyways, i tried asking him the big WHY, he always just says he dint do anything wrong!! that is when i have his mails to the gals n loads of other things. so i have come to a conclusion that he will remain a lier & never be faithful. its the right thing for me to move on. many times i hate him for what he did, its just sometimes that i feel a deep pain & feels like sharing it. thanks again. bye
