@spendius,
Look at like this lads-- the poets were pretty pissed off when scientists explained the sunset. And then found that it wasn't the moon that made women feel all funny like but that they thought it did. Mind over matter.
The Grand Canyon was just another hanging valley which is an effect you can see on muck middens that have been left undisturbed for a few months. It's only big because it's in the Yooessay. A Freudian would interpret whooing and aaahing at such banal mundanity in a slightly different light than I would. One thing that never gets mentioned about Freud is that all his patients were stupid.
Marriages were molecules with the strength of the bond being variable depending upon the various factors involved in this debate. Weak ones being a sort of feeding frenzy for the legal profession and media. Often involving individual members of those esteemed professions as well and who rarely hang on their own petard with dignity.
But that's only "social matter" after all. It can be explained by scientists and attempts have been made down the years to do so. Many a segment of White Space (that's flattened out wood pulp before ink is inserted) has been covered in such attempted explanations in our glossy magazines and various other places as well. That could itself be a molecular bond weakener.
But us!! Our very self? A duality exists between the man who "knows" and his "real you". One of Prof. Skinner's students studied the Prof while he was studying his rats. He who "knows" is committed to explaining his own "self" in the end. He's chasing his tail or, as fm often has it, too often really, he has his head either up his arse or seeking to be.
Does the "self" go the way of the sunset and the Grand Canyon. It being just a glob of protoplasm extruded through billions of holes each of which is slightly different and which shapes its destiny.
Some modern thinkers have sought consolation in thinking that the "self" will not allow that to happen. But I'm not so sure.
A "self" must do the "knowing". And what is "known" is chosen and the assumptions and the values implicit in the choice cannot be explained in terms of whatever theories constitute the "knowing". And if it was explained the explanation would be susceptible to the same investigation in an infinite regress or until depersonalisation put a end to the series.
Can the "self" actually identify with anything that is explained or as contingent as the "self" turns out to be when scrutinised scientifically. Or even with another "self" in such a conceptual state. Is it logically impossible?
Kant's Categorical Imperitive is derived from such considerations and philosophers before and after him. Know thyself. Cogito ergo sum. I'm walking backwards for Christmas.