@Jeremiah,
Exercise is apparently NOT relieving your distress.
Also for some people, sometimes people who intensely exercise, it can increase more stress. While you suffer this dysfunctionality, back off the on the intensity level of your exercise routine.
Apparently, judging from your past posting history, you have quite a bit of dis-tress in your life BESIDE that which you wrote about. You posted having been $29,000 in credit card debt. You're an older Dad (42) of a young child and other young kids around 10 yrs of age. Also, your wife has chosen to allow the child to seelp in your bed fairly often? Think there's alot of reason for stress and dis-tress here. That kind of dis-tress can be the cause of dis-ease.
Viagra is one way of assisting with the misguided muscle (erection) problem. If you are against using a popular perscription like this one, then be aware that no herbal remedy has been proven reliable or useful.