Did the X-ray show anything? Why won't they do an MRI?
Many different things can cause back pain, so it's important to try to diagnose the source of the problem.
You said that your husband is in pretty constant pain, but you also mentioned that
Quote:He needs to start taking an active role in these visits
He must speak up and impress upon the doctor just how much pain he is in, and how often he has pain.
Medication isn't really the answer--they need to find the cause of the pain first, so they know what medication might be appropriate. An MRI is really needed for a proper diagnosis.
I have a very bad back and I am in constant pain, so I can empathize with your husband.
If lifting and bending seems to trigger his pain, tell him to keep his back straight and bend his knees slightly before he lifts something, and to use the strength in his legs, rather than his back, to lift the object (or your daughter). Never bend over to lift anything--instead, bend your knees and use the muscles in your calves and thighs, while keeping your back as straight as possible. I find that doing that really helps me to avoid aggravating my back problems.