martybarker wrote:See, I'm a pretty cautious person too. But there is definitely a spark in me that I have not felt since my divorce. There haven't been many guys, but the few I took a chance on there were no butterflies.
I wasn't divorced when I met my hubby, but I had dated a guy for 8 years - he had talked of marriage at one time, but I finally realized he wasn't gonna marry me and I also realized marrying him would be a huge mistake - at this point I'm still seeing him out of habit.
Then I went on a skiing trip with a group of girlfriends. I met lots of guys and realized jeepers what the h*ll am I doing with this bozo, there is all these hot guys out here and I dumped his a$$.
At that point I had no interest in having a boyfriend. Sort of like you, I met some guys, dated some, but none that "sparked" my interest. Then about 6 months later on another girls' trip, I met him. I even tried to ignore the "spark", but he wouldn't let me. And then I was trapped forever.
I hope you get "trapped" too.