using condom

Why would anyone with the name Navigator inquire about the use of condoms?

"Ridiculously slim" and "pretty damn slim" aren't mathematical terms-- rather they are ways to convince oneself that what you want to believe is really true.

Use of condoms reduces your risk by a factor of 10, sleeping only with people who test negative reduces it by a factor of 5 to 50, but avoiding high-risk partners reduces it by a factor of 5,000.

Although there's reason to believe male-to-female AIDS transmission happens more often than female-to-male, the amount of difference is unknown.

OGIONIK wrote:

yes, with a condom you WILL NOT have a full body orgasm.

I would have to agree with that. A condom provides one with a partial body orgasm, usually the knee or occasionally the armpit, but never the full body. Just doesn't happen.

gustavratzenhofer wrote:

OGIONIK wrote:

yes, with a condom you WILL NOT have a full body orgasm.

I would have to agree with that. A condom provides one with a partial body orgasm, usually the knee or occasionally the armpit, but never the full body. Just doesn't happen.

Does to me.

A person with common sense would use a condom bottom line. Using a condom will: Reduce your chances of acquiring any STD including HIV. Whether you are a white heterosexual or a black heterosexual or an asian heterosexual or etc. you still have a chance of recieving STD's or viruses through Unprotected sex.

Also, you should use a condom in any relationship whether it is short or long term when having sex unless you want a child. The need for a child is the only reason why you should not be using a condom when engaging in sex or related material.

IF you hook up at the age of seventeen with the person whom you may think is your soulmate, and decide to get married and continue your marriage for fifteen years and don't want children, you should still use a condom. Unless you have implanted a videocamera at the top of your soulmate's head and monitored their every minute, then you can't be sure whether they have stayed true to you throughout your whole marriage therefore implying that they may have an STD.

yes, with a condom you WILL NOT have a full body orgasm.

and thats what its all about. makin her go into siezures if ya know what im sayin? ya dig?

6Yuri9 wrote:

A person with common sense would use a condom bottom line. Using a condom will: Reduce your chances of acquiring any STD including HIV. Whether you are a white heterosexual or a black heterosexual or an asian heterosexual or etc. you still have a chance of recieving STD's or viruses through Unprotected sex.

Also, you should use a condom in any relationship whether it is short or long term when having sex unless you want a child. The need for a child is the only reason why you should not be using a condom when engaging in sex or related material.

IF you hook up at the age of seventeen with the person whom you may think is your soulmate, and decide to get married and continue your marriage for fifteen years and don't want children, you should still use a condom. Unless you have implanted a videocamera at the top of your soulmate's head and monitored their every minute, then you can't be sure whether they have stayed true to you throughout your whole marriage therefore implying that they may have an STD.

So, you're saying everyone, no matter how long they have been married, should use a condom during every bout of sex, unless you are trying to make a baby?

Fortunately, I'm exempt from that, as I have indeed implanted a video camera on the top of Wally head, and every couple of days fast forward through his goings on.

Oh don't get me wrong, I slow it down during the parts where he's doing something interesting. Just last week I watched while he searched under the seats of his car for 15 minutes for a receipt from PEP boys. He later told me he was trying to exhange an oil filter.

I said "Wally, we're not poor, you could have bought another one"

Sometimes I don't know which would make me angrier; watching him searching under the seats to save a few dollars, or sneaking into a neighbors house and witnessing him commit infidelity with their dog.

That wasn't sarcasm, that was messing around.

You don't know people well enough yet to know the relationship many of us have with each other. It'll take you time to learn, and I hope you stick around (welcome BTW)

A lot of us make up ridiculous stories. Wally is not my husband, but one day one of the members created an account under that name, and occassionally appears to ask me if I'll remember to bring some eggs home. Many people know that.

Don't take it so seriously. Lighten up, life's too short.

Being serious for a moment though, I don't think it is necesary in long term relationships were fidelity has been proven, to continue to wear a condom except in the case of wanting to concieve.

You don't have to have a camera on someone head to know if the man you've been married to for 15 years is messing around. Of course it happens and the person doesn't know, but it's not all that common. Plus, hiding something from your spouse by that time is really too much effort to be worth it.

Let's say you do wear condoms throughout your marriage, that has been going on for decades.

In my case, my husband would be saying to me "why am I doing this? You know I'm not unfaithful, and I know you're not."

What would I say? "oh no, you must wear a condom because I'm not with you every minute of the day, and I could never be entirely sure that you weren't having sex with someone else."

In the same way, if my husband wore a condom all these years, I would definately say to him "Why do you do that? You know I've never been unfaithful, and you haven't either"

If he then told me he could never be sure I had never been, or wasn't sure right now I wasn't, we would have much of a marriage now, would we?

Are you married? You mean to say you would tell your spouse you both had to use condoms the rest of your life for fear of him/her giving you a disease?