Amigo.......... sweetie............
Im a black woman .............
I dont do the 'hip hop ' look.. I think dressing that way takes away from someones credibility no matter the situation. Especially women. If you want people to listen to you, respect you and take you at face value, you can not look like some self centered thug.
I think using slang and having your pants so baggy you could literally walk out of them makes people appear as if they are fresh out of high school and only have 1/2 a brain. Kids in high school are completely caught up with what people are thinking, and who is looking at them.. so they wear horrible clothes to 'look cool'. As an adult, you should not be so self centered in believing that the world revolves around you, that everyone wants to look at you, and that the only important thing is how you look to other people. A certain amount of maturity gets rid of that behavior.
And I agree with you. A long skirt + curves makes any woman much more attractive.
I am not keen on hitting people. Especially not my date/boyfriend/husband/lover
I will let people know if they insult me as well, but not by backhanding them, or rolling my head on my shoulders like a bobble head toy.
I am not out to make people buy me things by sweet talking them as if they were children.
Maybe I am just not black enough.. but just so you know.. we are not all alike.