JTT wrote:The vast vast majority of those pet peeves are nothing but repetitions of someone else's old wives tales, Mame. To language scientists, these presriptions are jokes. As they've, one after another, been debunked, no one has risen to defend them because there's no defence for them.
Language is an art, not a science. What is in everyday use in your surroundings likely isn't in everyday use in all other surroundings. Thus we have a standard form that is grammatically correct and suitable for communication in all educated surroundings. We learn to talk based on what our family and friends sound like long before we enter school. And where what our family and friends sound like is incomprehensible to English speakers at large, our formal education must make corrections.
Quote:'of' and 'have' are part of a group of words in English that have a strong form and a weak form. And, as it happens, the weak form of 'of' and the weak form of 'have' ['ve] are identical in sound.
Strong and weak forms of prepositions? News to me. And just because two things sound alike they are not grammatical equivalents and just because one may be correct does not mean that the other may be as well.
Quote:Children still all come online with language at about the same ages. They don't wrestle with the grammar, they just do it.[/color]
And because they don't wrestle with grammar what they learn merely by hearing is often wrong. We don't wrestle with grammar as we learn to talk because we don't all learn grammar as we learn to talk.
Quote:Oh, but we do write things much much differently
Care to give some examples?