seems that the employee is just not up to the job . better be honest with this person and tell him that it is just not the right job . it would probably be better - particularly for a younger person - to choose a different job or go to college for more training .
perhaps the HR department has to step in and make sure things are done "according to the rules" to try and avoid possible problems .
i guess "separations" have to be done very carefully these days , don't they ?
this is a tough thing to do , particularly at this time of the year . would the person be better qualified for some other job within the company ?
good luck in handling this "hot potatoe" - it's never easy to deal with it , but even more difficult these days , i'm sure .
hbg
ps reminds me of watching judge judy on occasion (
) . some people admit that their actions are wrong , but still refuse to take reaponsibility for them . others , of course , never even want to admit to having things done wrong . they keep repeating that they are INNOCENT !!! and that it is the other party that is at fault .
living in canada's "prison capital" we often hear the accused say in court "we was framed" , when the trial is reported in the newspaper - it's a bit of a local joke .