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Surgery--Again

 
 
Izzie
 
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Reply Thu 17 Jan, 2013 01:46 pm
@margo,
me too also


<grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr>


Boida, hoping you are breathing easier and continuing to loimp! ((((((((Boida))))))))))x



(Margo, glad you iz home)
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dlowan
 
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Reply Thu 17 Jan, 2013 01:46 pm
@margo,
Oh my Margo! Are you ok?
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ossobuco
 
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Reply Thu 17 Jan, 2013 02:03 pm
@margo,
Too late for me to move to aussie land, but it's tempting, I'm sure I'd like the place.

I've been self employed (independent contractor) since 1982, living in California, US, and New Mexico, US. I've had, all this time, superb medical care, except for one 'accident' in surgery which changed my life, and one dolt at a clinic. But I could go on and on about the good care.

I think part of that is that I'm fairly smart re the system at teaching hospitals, having worked for years in one, and rather like Roberta, know how to get listened to and by whom. I've met Roberta, whom I just plain old love.

In the meantime, I've gone from being a creative person of middle class tastes and lesser budget because of my own choices re marriage and career, that I'm not sorry about. But I was handling it all, until the eight surgeries. I was insurance poor to start with, hey, hey, blue cross - and with the surgeries, broken by the system. Between the killer cost of the insurance itself, and the great lumps of money the insurance didn't pay, I was in deep doo doo, and still am.

I now go only to clinics, and thank my lucky stars (I'm not a star believer, but they're pretty) that my two key doctors are very very good at what they do. One handles a busy clinic for your basic impoverished crowd; she is a very practical woman. I admire her.

The other is my ophthalmologist at the University hospital, and he has my great respect and we have a kind of patient doctor friendship. I think of him as the best of american medicine (not saying that sarcastically).
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Roberta
 
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Reply Thu 17 Jan, 2013 03:22 pm
The costs of medical care without insurance destroyed me financially and caused mountainous worries and hassles.

I tremble to think what my copay will be on the biopsy.

I agree with Miller. The medical care I receive at Bellevue is excellent. Dealing with the overburdened administrative aspects of things is daunting and exhausting. Everything was worsened by Hurricane Sandy. I don't have the same doctor from visit to visit. I can't reach people. I can't get answers easily. But I get them.

Not in full-blown lump yet. Too much on my mind to relax. Also I want a salad for dinner. Cutting up stuff doesn't blend with lumping. Maybe manana.

Speaking of food, the steroids are kicking in big time. I mean BIG. Hungry, hungry, hungry. Hungry while I'm eating. Possible? Happening.

dlowan
 
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Reply Thu 17 Jan, 2013 05:18 pm
@Roberta,
Ess! Ess! Then lump! Lump!
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sozobe
 
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Reply Fri 18 Jan, 2013 08:51 am
@Roberta,
Did you manage the salad?

Margo, yikes! Glad that your health care system is so sane and you were taken care of. That sounds alarming though, hope all is well now.
Roberta
 
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Reply Fri 18 Jan, 2013 11:34 am
@sozobe,
Yes, I had the salad. Enjoyed it, too.

Margo, You're home? Please take good care of you.
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Izzie
 
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Reply Mon 21 Jan, 2013 04:03 pm
@Roberta,
Roberta wrote:

The biopsy has been rescheduled for next week.


Hi Boida... is it going to be on Thursday... or another day this week.

Thoughts for you, hoping the breathing has improved greatly and you will be set for the op. Sending ginormous hugs and love your way ((((((((Boida)))))))) x
Roberta
 
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Reply Mon 21 Jan, 2013 05:17 pm
@Izzie,
Izzie, No one has told me what day this week. I tried calling both hospitals. No answer. No nothing. I'll try again tomorrow.

Thanks for the good thoughts.

Rockhead
 
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Reply Tue 22 Jan, 2013 01:37 am
@Roberta,
adding some more good thoughts to this mix...

(((B)))
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Roberta
 
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Reply Tue 22 Jan, 2013 02:37 pm
I managed to reach an actual human being at the hated hospital who informed me that I am not scheduled for any surgery!

I'm been trying to reach a human at Bellevue. No such luck.

Just a tad tense over the whole thing. I hope this doesn't trigger another asthma attack.
JPB
 
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Reply Tue 22 Jan, 2013 02:40 pm
@Roberta,
Unbelievable.


Hope you get some answers soon. Sending hugs.
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dlowan
 
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Reply Tue 22 Jan, 2013 02:50 pm
@Roberta,
Oh for pete's sake....it shouldn't be this hard!!!!!!
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roger
 
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Reply Tue 22 Jan, 2013 03:16 pm
@margo,
Margo? Have you recovered?
margo
 
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Reply Tue 22 Jan, 2013 03:48 pm
@roger,
roger wrote:

Margo? Have you recovered?

Recovering slowly, thanks, Roger.

I'm now at that sore and grumpy stage! Confused
roger
 
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Reply Tue 22 Jan, 2013 03:54 pm
@margo,
Delighted that everything is back to normal.

Twisted Evil
margo
 
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Reply Tue 22 Jan, 2013 03:59 pm
@roger,
roger wrote:

Delighted that everything is back to normal.

Twisted Evil


You ARE evil! Evil or Very Mad
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Roberta
 
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Reply Tue 22 Jan, 2013 04:08 pm
Finally!!! Reached a human at Bellevue. She paged the ENT for me. He called me. The biopsy is scheduled for this Thursday. The fact that the hated hospital hasn't been informed seems to be irrelevant.

No, it shouldn't be this hard.

I have learned patience (kinda) from dealing with all this crap. And I've learned to be a major pain in the ass--not that I needed much help. Persistence!

Feh. Now I'm gonna have surgery.

Izzie
 
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Reply Tue 22 Jan, 2013 04:46 pm
@Roberta,
we'll be holding your hand... ((((((((((((((Boida)))))))))))))))) x thoughts for you querida xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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dlowan
 
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Reply Tue 22 Jan, 2013 07:24 pm
@Roberta,
Ok...that's Friday our time. Will be thinking of you.
 

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