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Surgery--Again

 
 
Roberta
 
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Reply Fri 13 Nov, 2009 04:10 pm
http://www.gottabemobile.com/blogimages/music_20notes_small.jpg

Fairytales can come true.
It can happen to you.
If you're a gigantic pain in the ass.

So I get to the hospital a little late. (Don't need no steenkin' umbrella, Joe. I have a hat.) The lawyer is busy. He finally gets to me with only 15 minutes before I'm supposed to meet with my therapist. I ask if he'll be around after. Yes, he will.

My therapist gets an earful and then some. I'm not happy. I'm tired, fed up, and generally disinterested in EVERYTHING. I say where the hell is the fairy godparent who's supposed to swoop in and take care of everything with the wave of a magic wand. I've got many appointments to make with the hospital. Haven't made one. I have problems with state and federal taxes. I'm actually losing sleep over this.

I shlump from the therapist's office to the lawyer. I explain the state problem, which is an emergency. I received something in the mail which says "Warrant" on it. Am I under arrest? He calls the state. I say who I am and give the state permission to talk to him. While he's talking, I'm signing power of attorney forms. He talks for almost an hour.

While I'm slumped over in the chair, the head of the cancer center stops in to say hello. She likes me. (There's no accounting for taste.) To explain how fuzzy I am, I tell her that somebody from Bellevue called me last week and told me to take something somewhere. I wrote down where but not what. I have no recollection of the what. She says she'll check my file in the computer (probably requires a separate drive by now) and see if she can find out.

She comes back telling me that I'm supposed to make all these appointments. I say I know and slump forward again. "OK with you if I make them?" "Absolutely," I respond. So now the lawyer is taking care of the entire state tax issue and gets me two months to straighten things out. The head of the cancer center returns with all my appointments. (Actually all but one. I think I can manage one phone call.) I hug them both and start to cry. Then I go looking for my therapist and tell her that there are fairy godparents with magic wands.

I have another appointment with the lawyer next week. That will be to discuss the federal tax problems.

If I wasn't so exhausted and generally miserable, I'd be, dare I say it, happy. I do dare to say that I'm enormously relieved and grateful.

Gonna have some breakfast and go to sleep.



djjd62
 
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Reply Fri 13 Nov, 2009 04:13 pm
@Roberta,
oof, that's a lot of stuff, but most of it sounds pretty good, so.........

yay roberta
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Eva
 
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Reply Fri 13 Nov, 2009 04:40 pm
Definitely yay.

Sweet dreams, Roberta.
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littlek
 
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Reply Fri 13 Nov, 2009 05:35 pm
Sleep.... sleeeeeep.... it'll look as fab as it should after you rest.
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roger
 
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Reply Fri 13 Nov, 2009 05:41 pm
@Roberta,
Roberta wrote:

I shlump from the therapist's office to the lawyer.


This sounds like a step down from schlepping. Try to put a spring in your shlump and a smile in your heart. You'll feel better.

Trust me.
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msolga
 
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Reply Fri 13 Nov, 2009 06:20 pm
@Roberta,
Quote:

Fairytales can come true.
It can happen to you.
If you're a gigantic pain in the ass


Ha! Smile

Quote:
....I shlump from the therapist's office to the lawyer. I explain the state problem, which is an emergency. I received something in the mail which says "Warrant" on it. Am I under arrest? He calls the state. I say who I am and give the state permission to talk to him. While he's talking, I'm signing power of attorney forms. He talks for almost an hour.

While I'm slumped over in the chair, the head of the cancer center stops in to say hello. She likes me. (There's no accounting for taste.) To explain how fuzzy I am, I tell her that somebody from Bellevue called me last week and told me to take something somewhere. I wrote down where but not what. I have no recollection of the what. She says she'll check my file in the computer (probably requires a separate drive by now) and see if she can find out.

She comes back telling me that I'm supposed to make all these appointments. I say I know and slump forward again. "OK with you if I make them?" "Absolutely," I respond. So now the lawyer is taking care of the entire state tax issue and gets me two months to straighten things out. The head of the cancer center returns with all my appointments. (Actually all but one. I think I can manage one phone call.) I hug them both and start to cry. Then I go looking for my therapist and tell her that there are fairy godparents with magic wands.

I have another appointment with the lawyer next week. That will be to discuss the federal tax problems.

If I wasn't so exhausted and generally miserable, I'd be, dare I say it, happy. I do dare to say that I'm enormously relieved and grateful.


And so am I, on your behalf, Roberta!
Thank you, head of the cancer centre, thank you, Roberta's lawyer, thank you, Roberta's therapist!
(I wonder how much of your fuzziness could be attributed to living this nightmare? An unbelievable amount of stuff & crap to deal with at the same time. Incredible.)
But finally, some help!
I hope you're sleeping up a storm as I type this, Roberta.
I hope things look (at least) a wee bit better when you wake up.
Hang in there.
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dlowan
 
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Reply Fri 13 Nov, 2009 06:20 pm
@Roberta,
Well, about time!!!


I hope the fairies stay with you!!!


http://celticmythpodshow.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2008/04/froud_queen_bad_faeries.jpg


http://www.northernstarart.com/photos/SRpaintingsFaeries.JPG

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Izzie
 
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Reply Fri 13 Nov, 2009 06:42 pm
@Roberta,
Roberta wrote:


She likes me...


she's a wise woman

Roberta wrote:

She comes back telling me that I'm supposed to make all these appointments. I say I know and slump forward again. "OK with you if I make them?"

So now the lawyer is taking care of the entire state tax issue

The head of the cancer center returns with all my appointments.

Then I go looking for my therapist and tell her that there are fairy godparents with magic wands.



We like these folk:D

Finally the fairies are taking care of you goil!


Sleep ((((((((Boida)))))))))), big sleep. x

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ehBeth
 
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Reply Fri 13 Nov, 2009 07:17 pm
@Roberta,
oh boy! I'd like to hug some fairies. I did hug brendalee - that'll have to do for tonight.
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mac11
 
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Reply Fri 13 Nov, 2009 10:01 pm
Wow, that was a helluva busy day. I hope you got lots of rest.

Hugs to you and to your fairies, Boida. I'm glad to hear that things are looking up.
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Roberta
 
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Reply Fri 13 Nov, 2009 11:17 pm
I slept. No tossing and turning. I ate. While I was eating, I started worrying. Jeez, I hope my online buddies aren't worried that something is seriously wrong. My last post didn't have one kvetch. Stranger things have been known to happen.

Thanks, you guys, for the support. It means a lot.

Not feeling great today. Each day a different part of my head hurts. Not badly. Just enough.

I decided to deposit some checks from work I did several months ago. Discovered that I can't see up close, even with my reading glasses on. Something to report to the doctor.

I'm tired, but I feel lighter.
msolga
 
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Reply Fri 13 Nov, 2009 11:29 pm
@Roberta,
Ah. A good night's sleep does wonders, Roberta!

You needed it!

More of that tonight!

Are these prescription reading glasses? Or the easily bought "magnifying" sort?
Would it be worthwhile purchasing a stronger pair, to tide you over, till you you're able to see your doctor?

I'm not remotely surprised you feel tired! You've been through heaps!
Roberta
 
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Reply Fri 13 Nov, 2009 11:34 pm
@msolga,
msolga wrote:

Ah. A good night's sleep does wonders, Roberta!

You needed it!

More of that tonight!

Are these prescription reading glasses? Or the easily bought "magnifying" sort?
Would it be worthwhile purchasing a stronger pair, to tide you over, till you you're able to see your doctor?

I'm not remotely surprised you feel tired! You've been through heaps!


olga, I didn't have a night's sleep yet. I got home at five in the afternoon. Ate something and took a nap.

Yes, my reading glasses are prescription. I can't afford a new prescription. I'll have to see if my vision straightens out.
msolga
 
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Reply Fri 13 Nov, 2009 11:41 pm
@Roberta,
Oh! I thought you'd had a good sleep! (Time zone confusion, as always. Rolling Eyes )

OK, tonight then! Smile

I'd still consider some of the el cheapo magnifying ones to tide you over till then, Roberta. You can try them on, to see which work for you. It could be while before you get to see your doctor, given all the other appointments. I'd still let your doctor know, of course!

I can see, from your other posts just now, that your long distance vision (TV watching) is just fine! Smile
Roberta
 
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Reply Fri 13 Nov, 2009 11:44 pm
@msolga,
I have very bad astigmatism, olga. Magnification is not the only issue.
msolga
 
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Reply Fri 13 Nov, 2009 11:49 pm
@Roberta,
Ah. I didn't know that, Roberta.

I guess you might have to get another prescription, then? Or hope that it clears up, as you said.

What a bugger!

I had to Google "Astigmatism" to know what it meant:

Quote:
Astigmatism is a condition of the human eye which causes either blurred vision or a sense that each eye is seeing objects slightly differently. Sometimes astigmatism can be detected by an individual if he covers one eye to look at an object, and then changes to cover the other eye. By switching back and forth between covering each eye while looking at the single object or in one direction, it will become apparent with astigmatism that the object seems to move, as though each eye is seeing it in a slightly different location.


http://www.wisegeek.com/what-is-astigmatism.htm
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Izzie
 
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Reply Sat 14 Nov, 2009 05:19 am
@Roberta,
(((((Boida)))) thinking of you goil. xxxx
Roberta
 
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Reply Sat 14 Nov, 2009 02:05 pm
@Izzie,
Izzie wrote:

(((((Boida)))) thinking of you goil. xxxx


Thnking of you, kid ()()()()
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msolga
 
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Reply Sun 15 Nov, 2009 06:51 am
Just saying hello (& goodnight) to Roberta before logging off for the night.
No post from you today.
I hope you're OK.

Anyway, night night, Roberta.



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Joe Nation
 
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Reply Sun 15 Nov, 2009 07:05 am
Hey, good morning.

How did you sleep?

Joe(like a rock at the bottom of the sea, I hope)Nation
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