Stella, what you describe has a name. It's called emotional abuse.
Types of Emotional Abuse
Abusive Expectations
* The other person places unreasonable demands on you and wants you to put everything else aside to tend to their needs.
* It could be a demand for constant attention, or a requirement that you spend all your free time with the person.
* But no matter how much you give, it's never enough.
* You are subjected to constant criticism, and you are constantly berated because you don't fulfill all this person's needs...
Read more here or google emotional abuse for more information, links, support groups. If you allow your husband to keep behaving this way, eventually you'll be stripped of any self confidence, feeling of self worth, independence... It doesn't have to be that way. I bet you don't feel happy when your husband plays games. You can be happy. It's a choice, choice with consequences.