cicerone imposter wrote:Foofie, You can build a fence around yourself, but you'll miss out on really getting to know and appreciate others on a2k. Good luck.
No, I wasn't "building a fence" around myself, but building a sidewalk, so repondents would know where to walk, and not walk, so to speak. But, a fence might be the result, regardless of my intentions. I understand that many people might believe that their own criteria, for appropriate bounderies, is everyone's bounderies. There are more extroverts in the world than introverts.
And, in a thread that relates specifically to a military visit by our President, knowing whether one has, or has not, been in the military can "color the perception" of his/her response. Your asking was
personalizing my position. It takes away from "an even playing field" of discourse, I believe.
Regardless, a simple, "Sorry" would have sufficed, rather than what seemed like the advice of "you'll miss out on really getting to know and appreciate others on a2k." That can easily be misconstrued as "face saving," based on my prior response to your question. That wasn't your intent, in your advice, for sure, I believe. Just fatherly advice, I'd guess . And, you knew I would appreciate fatherly advice?
As a believer in sociology, I would think your informal, asking me a question, not related to the thread, might just reflect the easier culture on the west coast (like some west coasters supposedly might ask someone they just meet, "What's your (astrological) sign?"). That's not the entire country. Some parts of the country are fairly formal by comparison.