happycat wrote:Montana wrote:That's right! We shouldn't judge people for being uncharitable. Since when do others owe anyone anything?
It was her money to do what she damn well pleased with it and I can't believe she's being judged for that!
Montana, I disagree.
I think we all owe each other.
If you have money like LH did, and since you can't take it with you, once your family is well taken care of a great portion of the remainder should be spread among those who need it most.
Remember all that It Takes a Village crap from a few years ago? Well, I think that applies mostly to people that have more money than God and consider leaving it to a housepet.
I give to charities, and if I won a huge sum of money you better believe I would do good things with it.....albeit after I bought a 50' Sea Ray.
But, I would definitely give to those less fortunate, or establish scholarships or something to benefit others.
As far as my dog...well, he came from a shelter and he's not too picky; he'd be happy with any family member.
The cat? she doesn't care one way or the other.
I know the money could have helped a lot of people, but I'm just seeing the fact that it was her money to do with it what she wanted and I can't get past that.
Got my cat from the shelter as well and my mother can't believe how much she's like me :-)
I always said "If I hit it big, I won't give money to charities, but I will rent a U-Haul every year and drop a huge about of food off at the animal shelters and people shelters/food banks.
Of course I'd also help out some friends who I know are in need.