Gargamel wrote:Have you never benefitted from the charity of others, monetarily or otherwise? People owe it to themselves to be charitable.
At the end of her life, what was money to her but zeros and decimal points? What is it to her now? Would she start crying ghost tears if someone gave a portion of her money to a family living in a FEMA trailer?
In all fairness, I'll admit that I don't know her biography. She may have given to charities. Here I'm interested in the larger debate.
I have benefitted from the charity of others, but never financial. Well, other than my mother and father and my father died when I was 21.
I was a single parent struggling to raise my son on my own. I worked dangerous jobs to provide for him and no one was offering me charity, so this may explain some of how I feel.
Also, I use to give to charities all the time, and all they did was hound my ass with letters and phone calls wanting more!
Then there's the loser men I supported for 12 years of my life, which cost me big big bucks because I didn't have the heart to put them on the streets. Between my last 2, they cost me well over $100,000, which I still have anxiety about today!
I believe in charity, but I won't throw my money at it anymore. I've lost way too much doing that.
Maybe the woman had a reason to be a bitch. When you have money, lots of people don't mind asking you for some.
Right after my father died, people knew that he had a life insurance and I was unpleasantly shocked at how many people came to her asking to borrow money!
Also, when we moved to Canada, my mother and I made out pretty well in a good market when we sold our homes in the states and since the exchange on American $ was 51% at the time, we made out pretty well in our move here.
Well, because some members of the family thought we were rich, they decided we would be a great place to get loans. They found out quickly enough that we liked our money just where it was.
I do have one cousin who was persistant for about 3 years before he finally gave up though.
You need help moving furnature, etc, I'm all yours! You need money, you're looking in the wrong place.