clarification
ossobuco wrote:I'm pretty confused by your post, luv.
Your oncologist/friend was not the sister-in-law's oncologist, was he?
Neither were you, or were you?
The sister-in-law has died and you are still calling the oncologist to talk about your grief?
My Oncologist friend is here i n US where I work as a physician. My sister in law was out of the country. There is a lot taht is changing in Oncology. Every day there are new advancements and unless you are in that field it is hard to keep uptodate. My only way of helping her was to give advice from the US re; her treatments and supporting her.
I think I mentioned that I have stopped sharing any Emotions with him since she died but we work together everyday and have to talk about patients every day.
I appreciate everyone's advice who was supportive and it was very helpful.
Regarding my Grammer, I think It looks bad because I cant type. Never had to learn!! where I went to school it was a Secreterial skill. Believe me I wasa a writer even a poet although English is not my first language. Medicine has partly robbed me off of my communication skills and I do not know why.
As far as my name I tried many different ones and they were all taken but what is too much about " Luvmykids and hubby" I really do. Don't have much more in Life. Since my dearest friends death I have gone part time because Life is just too short and I realized what is most valuable to me right now is My family, friends and the Real Me.