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i'm trying to destroy my libido (i'm a man)

 
 
shaddix
 
Reply Thu 13 Jan, 2005 09:57 pm
I need to decrease my libido, I think i'm addicted to masturbation, i'm wondering if i have some type of reward cycle going on in my brain, i masturbate at least 5 6 times a day, i look at porn all the time, way more than what is normal, i know i don't do this because I have other problems, although I do not think I am happy with my current mental health(does that sound strange to anyone?) I am able to be a happy person, I used to be addicted to masturbating and humor because they made my brain feel good in the face of everything bad

i've done some research on anaphrodisiacs, and everything i look for on the internet on libido is about increasing it...... my motives behind what i'm wanting to do are twofold, one to keep me from pushing my girlfriend into sex, and two to decrease the chance of me having an adulterous lustful desire for other women, i'm pretty much ready to do anything short of castration

please reply if you see anything you consider warped thinking on my part, thanks in advance

update:
i have reached closure on this issue for the moment, if you have advice feel free to post, but at the moment i no longer have a problem thanks
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husker
 
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Reply Thu 13 Jan, 2005 09:59 pm
Re: i'm trying to destroy my libido (i'm a man)
shaddix wrote:
I need to decrease my libido, I think i'm addicted to masturbation, i'm wondering if i have some type of reward cycle going on in my brain, i masturbate at least 5 6 times a day, i look at porn all the time, way more than what is normal, i know i don't do this because I have other problems, although I do not think I am happy with my current mental health(does that sound strange to anyone?) I am able to be a happy person, I used to be addicted to masturbating and humor because they made my brain feel good in the face of everything bad

i've done some research on anaphrodisiacs, and everything i look for on the internet on libido is about increasing it...... my motives behind what i'm wanting to do are twofold, one to keep me from pushing my girlfriend into sex, and two to decrease the chance of me having an adulterous lustful desire for other women, i'm pretty much ready to do anything short of castration

please reply if you see anything you consider warped thinking on my part, thanks in advance


hey welcome to the site - but you really left the door open on this - I hope things turn out getting good advise here - folks here are better at turning the libido on
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shaddix
 
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Reply Thu 13 Jan, 2005 10:00 pm
thank you for the welcome =) and thank you for the hope =)
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husker
 
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Reply Thu 13 Jan, 2005 10:02 pm
but good advise is here if you can take the humor attack
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shewolfnm
 
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Reply Thu 13 Jan, 2005 10:02 pm
Lavender is a natural libido decreaser. Oils, lotions etc. It isnt dramatic.. like I think you want.. it is just an assistant so to speak.

how old are you ? If you dont mind me asking.
Seriously, this could just be an ' age' thing that will get better in time.
Maybe finding other things to do? running? playing pool? Swimming? Riding a bike? things that keep you away from home?
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kickycan
 
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Reply Thu 13 Jan, 2005 10:05 pm
Try this. The next time you are feeling horny, lay your member on a flat surface and hit it as hard as you can with a meat tenderizer. Repeat as necessary.
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shaddix
 
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Reply Thu 13 Jan, 2005 10:11 pm
lol, i don't mind you asking my age, however the question is unfortunate because my age will cause some people to automatically label everything i say as unimportant or immatured. thereby decreasing any helpful effect my words could have for them, but I am 20 years old(maybe it is an age thing =))

I will try the lavender thing thank you
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almach1
 
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Reply Thu 13 Jan, 2005 10:11 pm
I agree with the person who said get out of the house. There are definate worse things to be compulsive about. Try to focus being compulsive about something alittle more positive.
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shewolfnm
 
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Reply Thu 13 Jan, 2005 10:12 pm
Laughing

oy... kicky.. you are so sexy. nothing like a tender tube steak to turn someone off. hehe.


So.. how old ARE you shadd?
If you dont want to answer that is ok.
But understand this :
A mans sexual peak - meaning excess testerone levels- doesnt end until he is in his mid 20's. Some times later. If you are in that age range and experiencing this.. it could simply be chalked up to age/puberity etc. THAT isnt something that you can control.
What you can control is how you -relieve yourself-.
meaning.. excess hormones are not an excuse for extra-marital affairs. everone has excess hormones of some kind. Dont play that card. Talk to your wife/-g/f. if they dont understand, and the porn helps.. have at it.
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Adrian
 
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Reply Thu 13 Jan, 2005 10:14 pm
Jeez Shaddix! 56 times a day at least!?!

That does seem a bit much.

But seriously, find a hobby other than looking at porn and get yourself a girlfriend.
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shaddix
 
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Reply Thu 13 Jan, 2005 10:14 pm
i will also try the exercise thing, thank you for the love people, your desire to help is very much appreciated
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kickycan
 
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Reply Thu 13 Jan, 2005 10:17 pm
Don't forget about the meat tenderizer thing too. I guarantee it will work, almost immediately.
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husker
 
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Reply Thu 13 Jan, 2005 10:19 pm
kicky knows by experience - mostly at his job
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shaddix
 
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Reply Thu 13 Jan, 2005 10:20 pm
you guys are an amusing bunch lol
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shewolfnm
 
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Reply Thu 13 Jan, 2005 10:22 pm
dont mind kicky
He thinks a meat grinder with some vasoline is a hot date for free...
Wierd one that guy.


but um.. sorry to bust your bubble shadd.. but this isnt going to stop for ya for a while. Might as well cum to enjoy it. Porn is going to be your best friend for a while. Your hormones are in excess now and will be for a few more years. Take comfort in the fact that you are normal my child..
no go.. masturbate and be happy!
Much love.. just wont shake your hand.
Laughing
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husker
 
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Reply Thu 13 Jan, 2005 10:23 pm
hey how is your vision?
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kickycan
 
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Reply Thu 13 Jan, 2005 10:23 pm
shewolfnm wrote:
dont mind kicky
He thinks a meat grinder with some vasoline is a hot date for free...


Damn, that's hot! Now I have to go masturbate! I'll be back in about thirty seconds...
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kickycan
 
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Reply Thu 13 Jan, 2005 10:25 pm
Aah, that was nice. Did I miss anything?
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Adrian
 
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Reply Thu 13 Jan, 2005 10:26 pm
Yeah, you missed a spot over there....
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shewolfnm
 
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Reply Thu 13 Jan, 2005 10:26 pm
husker wrote:
hey how is your vision?

LaughingLaughing
BAD HUSKER!!! Laughing
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