OmSigDAVID wrote:aidan wrote:Quote:Some very beautiful pictures, Rebecca.
The waterfall is singularly beautiful.
Thank you. Yes, it was. One of the most beautiful things I've seen (the real thing- not the photo).
Quote:Is there any element of your English experience
that has evoked your love particularly ?
The people- in general- as a nation. I don't know how to explain it, but there's a certain gentle willingness to pause and engage long enough to make connections, no matter how fleeting that connection might turn out to be, that I really respond to and enjoy. Very different than in the US where everything is rush, rush, rush, and strangers are strangers and people are seemingly willing to allow them to remain just that...
And in terms of specific people- I've made truer and more intimate friends here in three years than I feel that I had made in all the years of my life in the US. There's just a different level of communication available to one here- or at least it was made available to me.
And I loved it.
I'll tell you all about it when you see me- believe me- you won't be able to shut me up and you'll probably wish you'd never asked....

That assessment seems quite inconsistent
with the vaunted English stiff upper lip reserve.
I thought that thay were known for being cold.
David
Never! I mean I guess they might be known for being cold, but in reality they aren't- or as I've said- they never were to me.
Although this is kind of funny. I was walking with a friend on Dartmoor and this Englishwoman came walking the other way so the configuration was an English person on one side, me (an American) in the middle and my English friend on the other side.
The English woman mumbled, "Afternoon..." my friend just kind of grunted an unintelligible response that I think was supposed to pass as a greeting, and I said very clearly (and in fact almost as if I were singing, he later told me), "Hello..." with a big smile. He, my friend just started laughing at the juxtaposition of attitude or temperament manifested in that simple exchange. He does always talk about a difference in energy level and enthusiasm- which he says he finds somewhat offputting and almost put on in some Americans that he hasn't really gotten to know. I think he finally accepts that my energy, enthusiasm and friendliness are real- and/or at the very least well-intentioned, benign, and part of my latent personality-and maybe would be a part of me whether I was American or English by birth.
I've certainly noticed that some Americans will do anything to avoid greeting a stranger, so friendliness is not an innate trait I would ascribe to Americans versus Brits.
The stiff upper lip thing might be true-but not among the Scottish women I've met. They tear up (cry) even quicker than I do and are very expressive of their feelings.
I already miss being called, "My Darlin'" and "My lovely", which was an everyday occurrence in Somerset. I guess I'll have to settle for, "Yeah, what do you want?" which is more typical here in NJ and NY. Although someone did say to me the other day- "Go ahead sweetheart". That was kind of heartwarming.