Bella Dea wrote:
Well, why do you even live together?
Why not just have separate houses?
Maybe it's just me but night time is snuggle-time. A time for me and hubby to wind down, lay together, maybe watch some tv....getting up and leaving would really spoil the moment.
Even worse would be the scenario of "That was really great sex. See you tomorrow!"
I didn't say anything about snuggle time, wind down time, laying together or watching TV....I guess I don't consider the moment spoiled if you have to move 10 feet away if you feel like it.
If we're in the same bed, we are at separate ends anyway. You do all that pre-sleep stuff mentioned above, then get your own space to sleep.
Anyway, if someone wanted to live in separate apartments or houses, that's fine w/ me if it's fine with them.
Funny, when I picture in my mind 2 people who have separate rooms, the first thing I think of is the old French royalty, it seemed they always kept their own areas. Must have been much easier to have your lovers and mistresses come and go.
Why is it any more weird for consenting people to agree to 2 beds, or 2 rooms, than for 2 consenting people to agree that it's ok if their partner have sex with someone else?
I've heard people, including you Bella & Francis, acting as if it would be totally natural for married people to have outside affairs, like if both parties agree, or you live in a so much more sophisticated
Why can't 2 faithful people enjoy a good nights rest?