Help me some one dam it please...

heres the story :

I met this guy, really cool, about 3 nights ago. i really like him. I told his buddy to tell him he's cute (let us call the guy NM). Anyway i dont know if his buddy told him but i saw him on friday night at a club. Now i was gonna go tell him myself that he's cute but he was with this girl who is his house mate but i thought at that stage she was perhaps his girlfriend (okay i admit I wasnt entirely sober at this club). Anyway i ignore NM becaue of his supposed girlfriend and i didnt want to stick my foot in the sh*t but he came to speak to me and hugged me hello and everyhting much to his secretley in love housemates disgust who gave me devil eyes and then began to mutter in his ear. I was shocked but kinda pleased too. Anyway due to much confusion I tried to avoid him because of his housmate who i thought at that stage was his girlfriend. Well i was walking by in the packed club and he was like baby why you following me? and i just stood their all like huh? Oh well i was not sober as i said and i was confuzzed. To make up for my idiocy i said good bye to him when i left, he pulled me over and demanded i come play SOCCER with him the next day! I mean soccer! what the #%^?

The next day was real stuff up. I had to see my grandfather and go to the airport so i missed soccer! dam it, not that i even know how to play. So i got his number through i friend and text him a message asking when it was and saying that i probably wasn't gonna make it, and he replied, shock shock horror. I mean I only met him twice and i got his number from some random source. Anyway i text him today ask him for a drink at this joint called the blue nartjie and he replies saying he's going to the transkei but he'll call me when he gets back. Is this bad timing? is he playing games? does he like me what the f&%^ is it about soccer? am i parnoid? am i desprate? what shoudl i do? Tell me some one what you think pretty please