Quote:Circumcision is a straw man debate, not the topic at hand. Circumcision is more of a cultural thing, along the lines of people who pierce babies in the name of beauty. To me, both make me shudder. I would not do either because I don't believe in inflicting unnecessary pain on babies. But that's a whole 'nother frying pan to jump into/out of. Patiodog, the debate is whether it is morally ethical to keep a child little and lightweight if they are mentally impaired and would at best be inconvenienced by their maturing bodies and the functions of those bodies.
Obviously, somebody came to a different ethical conclusion on this one than you did (at least three to four people -- parents, ethicist, perhaps surgeon). You framed your answer in terms of it being a slippery-slope question, so I looked for your (or others') opinions on a matter on a much less steep portion of, for my money, the same slope.
Quote:I wonder if these folks are basically caring for this child solo - and paying for all the extras with their own dollars, to boot.
I grew up with a girl with no use of her legs at all and very limited use of her arms. Fortunately (or perhaps not, for her), her mind was quite sharp and present.
The difficulty for her family was immense. Everything that was done for the girl -- including medical care -- was borne by the family and what contributions their church could garner for them. They were a poor family even before she was born, it was a poor, rural community with very little medical infrastructure, little job security or flexibility. I thought that what her parents went through to bring her up (I've no idea what happened to them after I got out of HS and moved away) and the way the managed it was superhuman.
Again, I wouldn't make the decision that these parents made regarding the care of their child, but I can understand how they might be utterly desparate to make their situation more manageable. And, ultimately, if there are lapses in the girl's care, it is the girl who suffers first, and if the choice for myself was between being physically altered and rotting with bedsores in dirty sheets, I would choose the former. I am in no way saying those are the only two options for the kid, but they are two potential outcomes. (Sadly, they could both still happen, of course.)
I just don't think enough of my own capabilities in their situation to condemn them for their actions.