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Wed 20 Dec, 2006 11:26 am
Having been seeing my GF for a month now, I dont know how to react to certain things still:
She was in a long relationship with a man for about 3 years, I was too for about 2 years. She has recently become a bit ill and has asked me to stay away (we live with our parents still) so i dont catch it. I haven't seen her for 4 days now. She suddenly has had contact from some male friends from school and she is seeing them tonight. even though she isn't well..
I then said can i see you in a few days time instead and she said I may be seeing my ex on 1 of them nights i'll let you know..
Should I be worried?
Move on. Her behavior shows she is not that interested in maintaining a relationship with you. Better to know now then in 6 months when you will have more of your heart invested.
I've said I love her and i do and she said she would like to love me back but something is holding her back. I dont want to lose her and I dont really want her to see her ex but if i tel her then she'll be defensive i think..
She still wants me to message her tonight.. what shall i put?
You said you love her in just one month? - that would scare me. Slow down, saying you love someone is serious and for some people it's like putting on chains. If you want to contact her, just ask how she is feeling but don't put any pressure on her to get together and don't question other aspects of her social life. Back off and maybe she do a little chasing, if not - go back to my plan A and move on.
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