Hey there River C! It's been several years since this thread started. I have been involved in a relationship for over 2 years and it's going well. Let me just state, if you haven't 'been there' and 'done that' it's hard to understand. The fact that her man still grieved after two years didn't surprise me at all as I did as well. This kind of loss takes a while to heal. Of course, I have moved on and my life is going well.