Quote:I'm not clear why you were worried that your friends--or the parent of your daughter's friend--would take advantage of your hospitality. Was this a real worry or were you just feeling momentarily fragile?
I think I was feeling momentarily fragile.....Like I mentioned, L and I haven't been very close in the past year,I think mainly because she is in a circle of friends with my ex. She has said things to me in the recent past to make me feel that she is not a good friend or someone physcologically healthy to be around. She has made little digs to remind me how happy my ex is with the women he cheated on me with. She is about 5'5" and about 90lbs. She appears to have major sinus problems and smokes non-stop. My gut tells me that she's drinking and possibly doing drugs. She has no financial means, she is collecting disability and now her husband has totally abandoned her.
Honestly it's mainly the girls innocently getting caught up in all of their parents issues that pulls at my heart. I wanted them to feel safe in my home. But truthfully if L would have called needing a place for just herself I don't think I could have turned her down, despite how she has treated me over the past year.