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Wed 15 Nov, 2006 02:01 pm
Really, I've just got to ask. What is the big deal with guys and cyber sex? Is it really THAT great?
I just don't get it.
I don't either.
Well, looking at pictures/movies etc. I can see, but that going on a talking trash and stuff...silly.
I've got a gf whose ex husband got all addicted to that stuff, she was telling me about how there'd be all these people pretending to be sitting in a hot tub or something, and say stuff to each other....(yawn).
He got to where he was trying to talk her into having threesomes (with another woman of course) and started watching people having sex with animals and stuff.
Ok, true confessions....here's the real Chai Tea....I can't pretend any longer.
I don't get it either. I tried it once and it didn't really do much for me. Here's how it went down...
Me: I'm so horny, baby, are you horny?
Her (or him--you never know): Oh, yeah, I want you inside me...
Me: What do you look like?
Her: I'm tall and blonde with big tits, a great ass and a sweet ****** that needs to be filled. Mmm...what do you look like?
Me: Have you ever seen that guy "Kramer" from Seinfeld? Picture him, only fat, with acne all over his face and hair on his back.
Her: ????
Me: Hey, that's me. Take it or leave it.
Her: This isn't working for me.
Me: What? You don't like pimples? Mmm...they're all juicy and wet for you...
Her: F*ck off you hairy-backed freak.
although I do love it when kicky speaks Italian to me....
Chai, Eww... watching people have sex with animals? That's a bit extreme. Magazines, movies, ok understandable. But cyber sex with someone you've never met, you don't even really know what they look like, or are like in person, and just basically talking about sex to each other to try to turn each other on. I honestly don't see the attraction here. But it seems like there's a lot of guys who like that kind of stuff. So I wonder what the attraction is for them. I mean I guess there might be a lot of women who like the same kind of thing. I wouldn't know... I've never been approached by a woman for that.
Hmmm...
lecchila...lecchila...lecchi la salsiccia grande, cara mia...
I think it's usually women who are into cyber sex
You're funny Chai!
Awwww, poor kicky. People can be so mean. :wink:
It's kind of funny, the images we create in our mind of the people we talk to on the internet.
Interesting....
That's just it Heph!
The images those guys create in their minds of the women they are talking too. That's part of the thrill!
Also, they are in fact having sexy conversations with a member of the opposite sex (presumably), how often can you do that in real life with a number of women for free???
I think the more they do this, the more it turns them on.
Just my opinion!
tomasso wrote:That's just it Heph!
The images those guys create in their minds of the women they are talking too. That's part of the thrill!
Also, they are in fact having sexy conversations with a member of the opposite sex (presumably), how often can you do that in real life with a number of women for free???
I think the more they do this, the more it turns them on.
Just my opinion!
Well....I can see your point, since you live in Nebraska. There aren't that many women out there.....lots of corn fields though.
In reality, the people you're talkin' to are sitting there in their granny bloomers with a cigarette hanging from their lips....one eye all squinshed up from the smoke.
oh tomaso....I need you....I want you....
If I'm not enough for you, I can share you with my sister....we're twins you know....
tomasso wrote:That's just it Heph!
The images those guys create in their minds of the women they are talking too. That's part of the thrill!
Also, they are in fact having sexy conversations with a member of the opposite sex (presumably), how often can you do that in real life with a number of women for free???
I think the more they do this, the more it turns them on.
Just my opinion!
Yeah... I can see your point tomasso. So images are pretty important for guys then huh? How often I wonder is a guy "really" with the girl he is with?
Oh my eyes! Sweet mother of dog, Chai, why did you DO that to this thread? Both pages, too. Mental note: never open this thread again.
aw c'mon, the 2nd lady is really cute!
look, she's wearing one of those emo headbands, and such a twinkle in her eye.
The big boys in the pool hall told me they really appreciate when a gal takes out her teeth. wink wink..
say, we're coming up to another page soon, I'll have to look for some more cypher, I mean cyber sex pics.
Shee-it, I already forgot my mental note and saw them again.
Ahem... is there a problem here chai?
Chai,
It makes no difference if a guy lives in Nebraska or California,
the point is, is that he is able to make up his own image no matter
what the woman really looks like (anywhere.)
Also, the risk of personally confronting a woman with that sort
of language doesn't exist. The risk of being rejected (if there is any)
is no big deal. So the wimpy way out is to live out your fantasies
over the screen, don't risk it in real life (you might get slapped,
or worse.)
Yes Heph, most of us guys are visually oriented and stimulated
(have you noticed?) and that's why images are a big deal, whether
they're photographs or images in our heads.
A big problem for the male today is the difficulty of having
non-sexual intimate relationships with women. I think it
would be very healthy for guys to develop more of these!
But then again qui suis-je?