charm wrote:good for you chai tea that you have a woderful marriage and still have passionate. because not all marriages has still thier passion most specially when it comes to a longer years of marriage.
anyway how long you been to married with your man? have kids yet?
i am 25 yrs this coming nov and married almost 3 yrs now.
charm, I'm not at all sure what you are trying to accomplish with this thread.
You state that "happily ever after" sounds ridiculous to you.
I opine that that does happen with realism, maturity, give and take, growth and hard work. Which BTW none of which takes away from happiness.
You essentially come back with....yeah, but all marriages aren't like that.
So.....what's your point. You are correct, all marriages are not like that. So?
Many marriages are, and many more would be if it was realized that it is like anything else that lives. It needs nuturing and care to grow and stay healthy.
How long have I been married to "my man"?
Well first, understand he is not "my man" anymore than I'm "his woman" I know you're saying that as slang, but it's important to realize that this person does not belong to you, or anyone.
If you're going to come back and post "well, that's great for you....but....." there really wasn't any point to you initial post. It would just be you saying "that's ridiculous"
How long have we been married?
13 years last January.
We have known each other for 19 years.
We had both been married before, but obviously we weren't with the right partner. Now, we are.
I'll be 48 in Dec.
He just turned 60.
Question for you charmed......What, in detail, is your definition of Passion?
Give examples as well.
I have a feeling our definitions are very different, so it would help to both have a common understanding.