First time sex

Your ejaculating quickly because sex is new and exciting to you.Its not a problem as such.
Try acheiving orgasm before you meet up with your girlfriend then when you have sex it wont feel as intense so you wont 'finish' so quickly.

Just basically have more sex then you can learn how to delay things.

The more experience, the slower the ejacs ;-)

Thanks for quick reply, this things had been bothering me a lots. Is it that having sex more will decreasing the time to ejaculate? And how does experience help me to learn to delay ejaculate? And another problem that bothering me a lots, because first time came to sudden, and forgotten to prepare condom, and just the time I feel want to ejaculate, I pull out, but I feel that I accidentally ejac some in her, and this made me nervous, and do not know is she going to get pregnant because of few ejac....

Its possible but but take a pregnancy test to find out.
Please never forget to use condoms in the future.

If you have sex more you know what to expect and how it will feel, the more you do it the more you will be able to control yourself and make it last longer.

Yup, what MG said ;-)

Just somethings out of this topic, if a girl really in love with a guy, does sex takes very very important roles from the view of the girls? And how long does it take after having sex inorder we can check if she pregnant? I heard that pregnant will stop the period, how long after having sex only will stop the period if there is pregnancy. Thanks

Work out when her period was due next, if it doesnt turn up she could be pregnant but stress can delay a period.
You can take a pregnancy test any time, just read the packet.

Yes sex is different for girls.
Imagine how youd have to feel about someone before you let them put their penis in you.

So is that means few day after making up then already can be tested the pregnancy? Thanks for the solution.

Yep, if someone is pregnant they are pregnant.Conception happens within seconds.
Doesnt matter how small the feotus/baby is, pregnancy should be detected with a test.
You may want to do more than one test just to make sure.

Please use condoms.

Can I ask how old you are?

You usually have to wait until the period is late for an accurate pregnancy test. (I used to work in a family planning clinic)

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Wise words, ignore my info.

Re: First time sex

Think about baseball.

Or think about your grandmother.

I always like to try and solve impossible math equations.

Re: First time sex


Well.

Now I understand you Chicagoans much better.

Thank you.

Re: First time sex

You go with what works. Of course, there's the danger that, through a transferrence process, you might get sexually aroused by watching a baseball game. That danger is significantly reduced, however, if you're a Cubs fan: there's nothing exciting about them is year.

So sorry. In that case, I suppose thinking about the Cubs would work for QuestionMark.

Two things:

1 If you wear a condom, the sensitivity is reduced (some have this as a special feature) so ejaculation may be delayed. Not to mention the pregnancy/STD issues!

2 Look up the "PC" (pubococcygeus) muscle on the internet, here's an example:

PC Muscle - AskMen.com

You can work on control using this - practice while you're not actually having penetrative sex and see if you can keep yourself from coming - it works!

I was actually having a very interesting conversation the other day with a female friend who told me that her experience is that men take longer to come as they get older - which can be annoying in the other direction sometimes!

Best of luck.

KP

So to make it simple, is the excercise means when the pennis is 'awake' , just simply 'move' it up and hold it for few moment, then release it, then repeating this excersice for few times a day, is that the article means? And I'm not quite understand where the PC muscle is...