Wow - thank you all so much.
You came back so fast; I've still got a week to prepare!
I'm going to test run the Gulab Jamun and the coriander rice - thank you sakhi.
I'm quite good at making Dalls - do you think Dall Tarka would be a suitable accompaniment?
McTag - that Ghurkha beer is very appropriate! Thanks
ossobuco - I'm with you mate. I need wine near me when I'm cooking - even if it only goes in my glass!
Swimpy - thanks for coming back so quickly - and nice to meet you, too.
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There is one more thing - and I might take some stick for this - but it's important.
I'm cooking for eight people (including me)
The table I'll use is a big old farmhouse kitchen table and normally its only me eating off it so I've never bothered really with table linen.
I've got a few cloth napkins I brought in habitat - but that's it.
Anyway, it's a special occasion and I'm wondering about the table and what I can do (if I should do anything) about making it look - well - 'special' or whatever. One of the women, who is Indian, is westernised - but very shy. She's coming with her father (who I greatly admire). I want them both to feel welcome and relaxed.
I don't want the table looking typically 'English' - you know - silver service - I want it to look earthy and colourful. I thought a few candles - (tea lights inside glass type idea, maybe some small bunches of flowers?
Does anyone have any tips? Ideas?
I also know I'm going to be ultra nervous. I have to have music. I thought something quietly playing in the background - I've got a lot of Middle Eastern music of example. Like Mukhtar And Al-Saadi. Save the Pogues for later!
Am I thinking along the right lines?
I have cooked for thirty people before - so the practicalities aren't a problem - it's the 'balance' between formal dinner party and friendly get together that I want to get right. Respectful but relaxed.
Thanks for any advice
(You can stop laughing now)
Peace,
Endy