onthequiet wrote:We moved into our new house not even a year ago and our relationship has just gone from average to outstanding , its been great and i just feel like this pregnancy has taken it all away .
This is part of why we have only one kid. Birth to three or so was just so overwhelming that we didn't seriously think of having another -- and then when things started to calm down a bit when she (my daughter) was three or so, it was just panic-inducing to think of losing that relative calmness and going back to the insanity.
However, now that she's five and a half I see her friends playing with their little two and a half or three-year-old siblings.... We made the decision for a lot of other reasons too and we're happy with it on the balance, but it seems to me that, generally speaking, having more than one child makes for a really crazy 5-6 years or so, and then after that it's
easier to have more than one, in a lot of ways.