"Have great chemistry" is pseudo science slang.
The "theory" is that just as two fluids can be combined in a chemistry lab or biological secretions can lure mating insects people can look at each other and there is a mystical chemistry of attraction between them.
Quote:"...but ever though she had have great chemistry with other men,the relationships were too intense to lost"?
You mean:
... but
even though she had
had great chemistry with other men, the relationships were too intense to
last.
Small errors accumulate and blur the all over meaning.