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Sun 28 May, 2006 02:52 pm
right at my new job there's this man who i spend a lot of time with and we get on very well which is cool cos we gonna be working together. Anyway let me break it down very simply: I don't want to like him and I try my hardest to keep it all profesional yet he invites himself out to the bars i go to and drives out to a mini dealership and picks me up a magazine (he knows i love them) and he has a girlfriend who i've met whom he conveniently did not bring out on friday night to the bar I was at which he invited himself too.
Okay so friends? yeah I can do that but he is making it so dam hard for me, because if I allowed myself to i could really like him(in more then a platonic way) but i don't want to. @#$^ it. So should I just continue playing it ultra cool? Urgh life can be so cruel sometimes. I work with him and he has a girlfriend this is my mantra all day long (oh and he let it slip that he would never marry his girlfriend).
sorry venting big time here i just need to blow some frustrated steam before i go spend another week in his charming company.
How long has he been courting you by proximity?
If he's cheating on his current girlfriend, do you really want him?
Don't mix work with pleasure.
hey he's not cheating... yet. Just flirting, I agree work with pleasure bad bad bad.