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Abortion.What do you think about it?

 
 
flushd
 
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Reply Sat 3 Jun, 2006 12:51 pm
Spendius - check out Snood's post.
He neither claims to agree/disagree with a woman's choice to abort or not.
He simply acknowledges that it is her choice.
Which it is.

I thought Snood's post was beautiful. None of us are required to approve of abortion if we choose otherwise. However, we all (or most of us) either have at least one female in our life, or are a female ourselves. This issue is much deeper than whether it is right or wrong. To me, that doesn't even come into play. It's not a question of morality.

Can we treat all women with the respect and courtesy of allowing them to lead their own lives, make their own choices, and love them regardless of the decisions they make?

It's 2006 fer chrissakes. Let's learn to love each other or else I'll blow up the joint! Laughing
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spendius
 
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Reply Sat 3 Jun, 2006 01:35 pm
Setanta wrote-

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Spendi's an unapologetic and trogloditic misogynist. It's never worth one's while to respond to the hatred he pukes up about women.



You have the wrong end of the stick there Setanta I'm afraid. It is men like you who think of women as objects, and patronise the living daylights out of them, who have reduced them to the abject state they are in. No woman ever had to make these sorts of decisions because of anything I ever did.

I respect women. I don't pat them on the head.

Three quarters of the women of England regularly use the expression "war paint" in place of "make-up". It's a cliche. Don't confuse respect for the enemy with misogyny. And don't confuse an irrational hatred, which is what misogyny is, with a rational wariness of female power. All that shite is in your own head.

In what way can my admittedly feeble attempt to persuade men to respect women enough so that they don't have such a scary choice to make be construed as a hatred of women other than for your own convenience. You are the woman hater as far as I'm concerned. I know how potentially dangerous I am to women when I don't give them proper respect and I do something about it rather than rely on them to do it.

If you dig my drift which is probably too much to hope for.

Have you still got your Wham and Take That records?
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spendius
 
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Reply Sat 3 Jun, 2006 05:50 pm
flushd wrote-

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Spendius - check out Snood's post.


I don't need to.

He's on the side of the angels.
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real life
 
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Reply Sat 3 Jun, 2006 08:58 pm
spendius wrote:
No woman ever had to make these sorts of decisions because of anything I ever did.

I respect women.


Well said.

It is often men who want the free use of women with no consequence to themselves who are the loudest in their support for 'a woman's freedom to choose'.

What they are often really after is a man's freedom to choose to walk away, leaving the woman to bear the consequences.
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real life
 
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Reply Sat 3 Jun, 2006 09:38 pm
joefromchicago wrote:
But then the anti-abortionist solution -- to assign the beginning of life to conception -- is no less arbitrary (and no less paradoxical).


Paradoxical to you perhaps unless you are willing to look at the medical evidence.

The medical evidence that a distinct, separate life begins at conception is strong.

Distinct--The unborn is not 'a part of the mother's body' , he/ she has a unique DNA structure not shared by his mother.

Alive--He/she is alive in every sense of the word, his body is growing, cells dividing making new cells, etc. He/she has a heart that beats and circulates blood, (his own blood, not his mother's) through his body before the end of the 4th week -- before many women even know they are pregnant. Brain waves as early as the 6th week.

At least two distinguished groups of physicians have weighed in on this.

The AAFP is on record as regarding the unborn as a separate patient.

The ACOG is on record that from conception, the child is a living, separate person.

I have posted these links several times, I invite you to look at them, or even better do your own research.

If you do not believe the medical evidence, and are still unsure that a living human being is the issue: let me ask you (since you regard it as 'paradoxical') does it not make sense to give the benefit of the doubt to life?

Unless you can firmly establish overriding evidence that contradicts what the medical community has offered, isn't the most prudent course to proceed as if a living human being MAY be at stake, until you can show beyond doubt that it is NOT?
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snood
 
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Reply Sat 3 Jun, 2006 10:56 pm
spendius wrote:
flushd wrote-

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Spendius - check out Snood's post.


I don't need to.

He's on the side of the angels.


what's that mean?
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joefromchicago
 
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Reply Sat 3 Jun, 2006 11:43 pm
real life wrote:
Paradoxical to you perhaps unless you are willing to look at the medical evidence.

The medical evidence that you are referring to is largely irrelevant.

real life wrote:
The medical evidence that a distinct, separate life begins at conception is strong.

Distinct--The unborn is not 'a part of the mother's body' , he/ she has a unique DNA structure not shared by his mother.

Alive--He/she is alive in every sense of the word, his body is growing, cells dividing making new cells, etc. He/she has a heart that beats and circulates blood, (his own blood, not his mother's) through his body before the end of the 4th week -- before many women even know they are pregnant. Brain waves as early as the 6th week.

So what? Why does it make a difference whether the fetus is alive or not?

real life wrote:
At least two distinguished groups of physicians have weighed in on this.

The AAFP is on record as regarding the unborn as a separate patient.

The ACOG is on record that from conception, the child is a living, separate person.

I have posted these links several times, I invite you to look at them, or even better do your own research.

Again, why does it matter?

real life wrote:
If you do not believe the medical evidence, and are still unsure that a living human being is the issue: let me ask you (since you regard it as 'paradoxical') does it not make sense to give the benefit of the doubt to life?

Why does it matter?

real life wrote:
Unless you can firmly establish overriding evidence that contradicts what the medical community has offered, isn't the most prudent course to proceed as if a living human being MAY be at stake, until you can show beyond doubt that it is NOT?

No, certainly not. My position on abortion does not rest on the supposition that the fetus is not a living human being. For all I know (or care), a fetus is a living human being from the moment of conception. Establishing that as a medical fact wouldn't change my position on abortion one whit.

But, to clarify your position, let me ask you this: if it were proven, beyond all possible doubt, that a fetus (or blastocyst or embryo) is not a living human being, would you then be in favor of abortion?
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thetagal
 
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Reply Sun 4 Jun, 2006 02:24 am
abortions
Hello. Let me start off saying I never had an abortion; I had fifteen pregancies, four spontanious abortions (in other words I didn't do anything to cause it, it just happened) and eleven live births.

I'm glad I didn't have abortions, because even if circumstances were difficult at times, they worked out and there isn't a single child I would want to give up.

But I do believe a woman should have the right to choose. Until the spirit takes over the body, the fetus, especially in the early stages, is not yet a human being. So it isn't murder. If you took an embryo and cloned it many times, then "killed" some of the clones, is that murder? No. Stupid maybe.

Until the "life force" the spirit actually enters and takes over the body, you don't have a human to kill. You just have a little tadpole, so to speak.

And hey, I don't like to kill little tadpoles either. But if I knew that I couldn't support or give a child love and care, or if it was the result of a rape I couldn't live with because of the reminder, I might be tempted to have an abortion.

Being me, I probably wouldn't choose an abortion in any case. But not everyone looks at life the same way. If a pregancy is going to ruin all one is trying to achieve, perhaps it would be better to abort (early). I just think a woman should have the right to choose. It is her life first.
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real life
 
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Reply Sun 4 Jun, 2006 01:11 pm
joefromchicago wrote:
real life wrote:
Paradoxical to you perhaps unless you are willing to look at the medical evidence.

The medical evidence that you are referring to is largely irrelevant.

real life wrote:
The medical evidence that a distinct, separate life begins at conception is strong.

Distinct--The unborn is not 'a part of the mother's body' , he/ she has a unique DNA structure not shared by his mother.

Alive--He/she is alive in every sense of the word, his body is growing, cells dividing making new cells, etc. He/she has a heart that beats and circulates blood, (his own blood, not his mother's) through his body before the end of the 4th week -- before many women even know they are pregnant. Brain waves as early as the 6th week.

So what? Why does it make a difference whether the fetus is alive or not?

real life wrote:
At least two distinguished groups of physicians have weighed in on this.

The AAFP is on record as regarding the unborn as a separate patient.

The ACOG is on record that from conception, the child is a living, separate person.

I have posted these links several times, I invite you to look at them, or even better do your own research.

Again, why does it matter?

real life wrote:
If you do not believe the medical evidence, and are still unsure that a living human being is the issue: let me ask you (since you regard it as 'paradoxical') does it not make sense to give the benefit of the doubt to life?

Why does it matter?

real life wrote:
Unless you can firmly establish overriding evidence that contradicts what the medical community has offered, isn't the most prudent course to proceed as if a living human being MAY be at stake, until you can show beyond doubt that it is NOT?

No, certainly not. My position on abortion does not rest on the supposition that the fetus is not a living human being. For all I know (or care), a fetus is a living human being from the moment of conception. Establishing that as a medical fact wouldn't change my position on abortion one whit.

But, to clarify your position, let me ask you this: if it were proven, beyond all possible doubt, that a fetus (or blastocyst or embryo) is not a living human being, would you then be in favor of abortion?


Yes.

If you can show medically that destroying the unborn is no different than removing a mole, or wart, etc then obviously it is a medical procedure with no moral consequence.

But such is not the case. The unborn is not just an extraneous part of the mother's body. It is a genetically distinct individual. Every human trait that he/she will have is already contained in the fertilized egg.

This should be especially important to the non-religious (those who do not believe in the existence of a 'soul' or 'spirit' and who think that the physical/chemical/biological/genetic component of a person is all there is) because there should be NO doubt for those folks that a complete human being is present.

The ones that you would expect to be UNcertain are the religious or those who believe in the existence of a 'soul' or 'spirit'. The possible unanswered question for them is 'has the body been given a soul yet?'

The scary part of your position is your apparent assertion that , living human or not, it is ok with you to kill. Do you hold that human life is of no value whatever, or just that if one becomes inconvenient to another then the stronger has a right to dispose of the weaker?
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real life
 
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Reply Sun 4 Jun, 2006 01:13 pm
Re: abortions
thetagal wrote:
Hello. Let me start off saying I never had an abortion; I had fifteen pregancies, four spontanious abortions (in other words I didn't do anything to cause it, it just happened) and eleven live births.

I'm glad I didn't have abortions, because even if circumstances were difficult at times, they worked out and there isn't a single child I would want to give up.

But I do believe a woman should have the right to choose. Until the spirit takes over the body, the fetus, especially in the early stages, is not yet a human being. So it isn't murder. If you took an embryo and cloned it many times, then "killed" some of the clones, is that murder? No. Stupid maybe.

Until the "life force" the spirit actually enters and takes over the body, you don't have a human to kill. You just have a little tadpole, so to speak.

And hey, I don't like to kill little tadpoles either. But if I knew that I couldn't support or give a child love and care, or if it was the result of a rape I couldn't live with because of the reminder, I might be tempted to have an abortion.

Being me, I probably wouldn't choose an abortion in any case. But not everyone looks at life the same way. If a pregancy is going to ruin all one is trying to achieve, perhaps it would be better to abort (early). I just think a woman should have the right to choose. It is her life first.


So when does the 'life force' enter the body of the unborn, and how do you know when that occurs?
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Frank Apisa
 
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Reply Sun 4 Jun, 2006 02:39 pm
real life wrote:
The scary part of your position is your apparent assertion that , living human or not, it is ok with you to kill. Do you hold that human life is of no value whatever, or just that if one becomes inconvenient to another then the stronger has a right to dispose of the weaker?


I'll tell ya what's scary. The fact that you and some of the others on your side of this question can actually convince yourselves that your position shows more respect for women than the position of those of us on the other side of the issue.

That is scary!
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boomerang
 
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Reply Sun 4 Jun, 2006 02:40 pm
I could be sticking my foot in my mouth but all this "separate DNA" stuff as a basis for "life" is puzzeling me.

Cancer cells have their own DNA. So do virus'. So do a million bacteria that can infect a human body.

Before anyone gets all livid moaning that the "unborn" are not "cancer"....

Well, duh.

But they each have their own separate DNA and they depend on the host for replication.

Of all the anti-abortion arguements this one seems really, really weak.
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EpiNirvana
 
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Reply Sun 4 Jun, 2006 02:44 pm
boomerang wrote:
I could be sticking my foot in my mouth but all this "separate DNA" stuff as a basis for "life" is puzzeling me.
Cancer cells have their own DNA. So do virus'. So do a million bacteria that can infect a human body.
Before anyone gets all livid moaning that the "unborn" are not "cancer"....
Well, duh.
But they each have their own separate DNA and they depend on the host for replication.
Of all the anti-abortion arguements this one seems really, really weak.


Wow, that is really insightful, i have never saw it like that.....i still dont know how i feel on the subject, but i did find that very intresting
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joefromchicago
 
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Reply Sun 4 Jun, 2006 03:24 pm
real life wrote:
joefromchicago wrote:
But, to clarify your position, let me ask you this: if it were proven, beyond all possible doubt, that a fetus (or blastocyst or embryo) is not a living human being, would you then be in favor of abortion?


Yes.

If you can show medically that destroying the unborn is no different than removing a mole, or wart, etc then obviously it is a medical procedure with no moral consequence.

But again I ask: why does that matter? You're not suggesting that no one is ever justified in killing another human being, even an "innocent" human being, are you? After all, most moral theories hold that we are morally justified in killing people (i.e. the post-born) under certain circumstances. For instance, suppose you are the survivor of a shipwreck. You are clinging to a piece of wood that is sufficient to bear your weight but not anyone else's. Someone else swims over and attempts to grab onto your piece of wood. If he succeeds, both of you will certainly drown. Are you justified in repelling him, even if that means he will drown?

real life wrote:
This should be especially important to the non-religious (those who do not believe in the existence of a 'soul' or 'spirit' and who think that the physical/chemical/biological/genetic component of a person is all there is) because there should be NO doubt for those folks that a complete human being is present.

It doesn't matter to me at all. For all I care, the fertilized ovum can be wearing a three-piece suit and reading the poetry of Rilke. It makes no difference.

real life wrote:
The ones that you would expect to be UNcertain are the religious or those who believe in the existence of a 'soul' or 'spirit'. The possible unanswered question for them is 'has the body been given a soul yet?'

Well, some religions believe in "ensoulment," others don't. But I have no interest in such idle metaphysical speculations.

real life wrote:
The scary part of your position is your apparent assertion that , living human or not, it is ok with you to kill. Do you hold that human life is of no value whatever, or just that if one becomes inconvenient to another then the stronger has a right to dispose of the weaker?

I certainly hold that humans have value -- indeed, the highest moral value -- but that doesn't mean we still can't kill them under certain circumstances.

I've offered this hypothetical before, but it seems like a good time to do it again:
    You wake up in the morning and find yourself back to back in bed with an unconscious violinist. A famous unconscious violinist. He has been found to have a fatal kidney ailment, and the Society of Music Lovers has canvassed all the available medical records and found that you alone have the right blood type to help. They have therefore kidnapped you, and last night the violinist's circulatory system was plugged into yours, so that your kidneys can be used to extract poisons from his blood as well as your own. The director of the hospital now tells you, "Look, we're sorry the Society of Music Lovers did this to you--we would never have permitted it if we had known. But still, they did it, and the violinist is now plugged into you. To unplug you would be to kill him. But never mind, it's only for nine months. By then he will have recovered from his ailment, and can safely be unplugged from you." Is it morally incumbent on you to accede to this situation? No doubt it would be very nice of you if you did, a great kindness. But do you have to accede to it?
Under these circumstances, are you required to provide life support to the violinist?
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spendius
 
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Reply Sun 4 Jun, 2006 03:31 pm
FA wrote-

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The fact that you and some of the others on your side of this question can actually convince yourselves that your position shows more respect for women than the position of those of us on the other side of the issue.


A man doesn't show his respect for women with words. He shows it in actions and not simple actions like opening doors and other politenesses which are as easy to do as the blather but in actions that are difficult to do.

Any man whose actions lead to a woman having to wrestle with the idea of having an abortion, which, of course, unwinds her femininity, has no respect for her whatsoever. And that's irrespective of whether she goes through with it or not. Her even considering it satisfies the condition.
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real life
 
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Reply Sun 4 Jun, 2006 04:28 pm
boomerang wrote:
I could be sticking my foot in my mouth but all this "separate DNA" stuff as a basis for "life" is puzzeling me.

Cancer cells have their own DNA. So do virus'. So do a million bacteria that can infect a human body.

Before anyone gets all livid moaning that the "unborn" are not "cancer"....

Well, duh.

But they each have their own separate DNA and they depend on the host for replication.

Of all the anti-abortion arguements this one seems really, really weak.


That's ok. Pull your foot out of your mouth and think about it.

Separate DNA is evidence, not that the unborn is living, but that the unborn is separate -- i.e. not 'part of the woman's body'.

A bacteria's separate DNA is proof that it is not 'part of the woman's body' , but is in fact a separate living thing.

However, bacteria is not a separate HUMAN living thing. It does not have the same number of chromosomes as a human.

A cancer , if nourished and protected, does not develop it's own heart, brain , etc . It is not a human being, although it may be tissue from a human body, as may a wart, a mole, etc.
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real life
 
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Reply Sun 4 Jun, 2006 04:32 pm
joefromchicago wrote:
real life wrote:
joefromchicago wrote:
But, to clarify your position, let me ask you this: if it were proven, beyond all possible doubt, that a fetus (or blastocyst or embryo) is not a living human being, would you then be in favor of abortion?


Yes.

If you can show medically that destroying the unborn is no different than removing a mole, or wart, etc then obviously it is a medical procedure with no moral consequence.

But again I ask: why does that matter? You're not suggesting that no one is ever justified in killing another human being, even an "innocent" human being, are you? After all, most moral theories hold that we are morally justified in killing people (i.e. the post-born) under certain circumstances. For instance, suppose you are the survivor of a shipwreck. You are clinging to a piece of wood that is sufficient to bear your weight but not anyone else's. Someone else swims over and attempts to grab onto your piece of wood. If he succeeds, both of you will certainly drown. Are you justified in repelling him, even if that means he will drown?

real life wrote:
This should be especially important to the non-religious (those who do not believe in the existence of a 'soul' or 'spirit' and who think that the physical/chemical/biological/genetic component of a person is all there is) because there should be NO doubt for those folks that a complete human being is present.

It doesn't matter to me at all. For all I care, the fertilized ovum can be wearing a three-piece suit and reading the poetry of Rilke. It makes no difference.

real life wrote:
The ones that you would expect to be UNcertain are the religious or those who believe in the existence of a 'soul' or 'spirit'. The possible unanswered question for them is 'has the body been given a soul yet?'

Well, some religions believe in "ensoulment," others don't. But I have no interest in such idle metaphysical speculations.

real life wrote:
The scary part of your position is your apparent assertion that , living human or not, it is ok with you to kill. Do you hold that human life is of no value whatever, or just that if one becomes inconvenient to another then the stronger has a right to dispose of the weaker?

I certainly hold that humans have value -- indeed, the highest moral value -- but that doesn't mean we still can't kill them under certain circumstances.

I've offered this hypothetical before, but it seems like a good time to do it again:
    You wake up in the morning and find yourself back to back in bed with an unconscious violinist. A famous unconscious violinist. He has been found to have a fatal kidney ailment, and the Society of Music Lovers has canvassed all the available medical records and found that you alone have the right blood type to help. They have therefore kidnapped you, and last night the violinist's circulatory system was plugged into yours, so that your kidneys can be used to extract poisons from his blood as well as your own. The director of the hospital now tells you, "Look, we're sorry the Society of Music Lovers did this to you--we would never have permitted it if we had known. But still, they did it, and the violinist is now plugged into you. To unplug you would be to kill him. But never mind, it's only for nine months. By then he will have recovered from his ailment, and can safely be unplugged from you." Is it morally incumbent on you to accede to this situation? No doubt it would be very nice of you if you did, a great kindness. But do you have to accede to it?
Under these circumstances, are you required to provide life support to the violinist?


Yes I am saying that you are not justified in intentionally taking the life of an innocent human being. That is exactly what I am saying.
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boomerang
 
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Reply Sun 4 Jun, 2006 05:09 pm
So.... before your argument was that an embryo was an exception because it had it's own DNA but now your argument is that an embryo has an exception because it's human?

I just want to be clear.
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spendius
 
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Reply Sun 4 Jun, 2006 05:09 pm
Joe wrote-

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For instance, suppose you are the survivor of a shipwreck. You are clinging to a piece of wood that is sufficient to bear your weight but not anyone else's. Someone else swims over and attempts to grab onto your piece of wood. If he succeeds, both of you will certainly drown. Are you justified in repelling him, even if that means he will drown?


Don't be so feewking silly. I've been lozocking on the couch all day watching the test match.

Frayn sorts the absurdity of such infantile posturing as that in The Tin Men.

Have you not read that Joe?

Being in a shipwreck is a highly refined activity which I don't think the average civilised 2006 person ever seriously thinks about. And even if he did he would fantasise it up with an inflatable lifecraft,two weeks supply of essentials, such as digestive biscuits, and a satellite communicator to inform the rescue services of his exact position.
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spendius
 
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Reply Sun 4 Jun, 2006 05:19 pm
Joe wrote-

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It doesn't matter to me at all. For all I care, the fertilized ovum can be wearing a three-piece suit and reading the poetry of Rilke. It makes no difference.


Such an image is a bit pinkieteeboo.

How about if it was wearing black suspenders, open crotch kecks,sheer stockings with black seams tapering down to 10 inch highly polished high heel shoes in black leather, seen from below and to the rear and gazing at the viewer unblinkingly. Or scoring the winning goal in the World Cup Final for the United States.

Any any old fool can talk about Rilke declamations in this desultory,offhand fashion.
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