boomerang wrote:Quote:The problem is, being told by someone else to stop just doesn't work. Reasoning with them doesn't help.
That really hits it on the head!
Still, I've been reading up a bit on OCD and it really doesn't seem to fit other than the hiccoughing thoughts. Unless the asking itself can be viewed as ritualistic behavior.
ok - now I'm not pushing the ocd, but YES, the asking itself is a ritual.
I would tell someone something, or ask them, especially my husband....a little later I'd feel the need to tell them again...in case he didn't get it all.....then, later, I tell him again in case he forgot.
Same thing with questions....it was like I was anxious that the answer may have changed, so I'd have to ask again. Oh, and it wouldn't be a question that the answer could have changed, like, do you still want to go out?
It would be more like...."we have to be there at 6, so we need to leave at 4:30........later......4:30 is when we're leaving.......
counting the hours to 4:30.....internally...that's three more hours, let's see...it's 1:30....that makes it 3 more hours.....it's 1:30....2:30, 3:30, 4:30, that's 3 hours.
for ritual ocd counting, which was my biggest thing, giving someone a time or an amount or amount just gave me something I could count over and over.
If mo asked you at 7:25..."Can I play with King tomorrow?" and you gave a VERY definite "Yes. You may go over and play with King tomorrow at 9:00 am......would he keep asking...."I'm going to play with king tomorrow, right?" "9:00 tomorrow I'm going to play with king....
Does this sound like mo....?