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Tue 9 May, 2006 12:39 am
How do you show a man that is a bit self centered That it is him trying Meaning more romance, more fun, more care or it is the end of the relationship????
There is no doubt we love one another but he is so self centered that he doesnt seem to think he needs to try for me, of course leaving me feeling a bit unloved,underappriacted, and unworthy.
I try all the time becuase it is just my nature, I have tried to get him to open up and ease him into a romantic situation or give him something easy but he isnt getting it. I know I am more important to him than not trying. But how can I get him to whooo me???????
It his way or the highway!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
How to get him to whooo me?????
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You can't change someone else. You can only change yourself.
Re: How to get him to whooo me?????
Stephp wrote:How do you show a man that is a bit self centered That it is him trying Meaning more romance, more fun, more care or it is the end of the relationship????
There is no doubt we love one another but he is so self centered that he doesnt seem to think he needs to try for me, of course leaving me feeling a bit unloved,underappriacted, and unworthy.
I try all the time becuase it is just my nature, I have tried to get him to open up and ease him into a romantic situation or give him something easy but he isnt getting it. I know I am more important to him than not trying. But how can I get him to whooo me???????
It his way or the highway!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
If you have to work this hard to get his attention, best to drop the man and find another one interested in you.
Are you one of those women who gets in a relationship and then decides that her man needs to be molded and changed into someone more to your liking? Kind of like training a dog? I hate that ****. I hope he leaves you.
Jeez, if it's this much work now, imagine what he'll be like when he gets tired of you, in like three or four days...
Three's a crowd - you, him and himself.
This is never going to work!
How long have you been together and what is your current status (dating, living together, married, etc.)?
How to get him to whooo me?????
He's letting you do all the work, and as long as you do all the work he'll keep right on letting you. Is that what you want?
You can't win in this situation. Back off and see if he truly is 'self centered' or just bucking your attempts to do what you want.
Men will resist being molded with every ounce of their being. Hell, so would I.
If he truly is 'self centered' or doesn't naturally show affection the way you can be happy with after you've backed down; then he isn't a good match for you.
kickycan wrote:Are you one of those women who gets in a relationship and then decides that her man needs to be molded and changed into someone more to your liking? Kind of like training a dog? I hate that ****. I hope he leaves you.
Um...aren't we all like that, to a degree?
I can't stand self-centered people so I'd be outta there so fast I'd get whiplash. And I can't stand complainers who do nothing, either, so my advice is either stay in and deal with it or get the heck out. Maybe he's not the one for you. Happens.
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