ossobuco
well it would nail it down for me that you were a relative of someone if you were going to a wedding in Northern Idaho this summer (July)
A wedding, more cheery than a memorial service, which is why I went to the Sandpoint area last year...on the other hand, my aunt was happily memorialized and the family had a fine get together...my cousins have land on the lake, and tromped about talking about small cabin building, nothing fancy.
I have to say I felt quite the stranger in Idaho, and it turns out I might be not quite. Stranger, I say, even though when I lived in Venice, CA all those years, our street name was Coeur d'Alene.