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Sat 18 Mar, 2006 06:04 am
Ok , very interesting topic came up last night at a party .
Ill keep it short .
I am 33 years old and am married but last 2 years i've noticed my sex drive has gone up dramatically ( yay says my wife .. lol ) and im constantly looking at other women in general with no itrest of picking up ,but just perving .
Kept this all to myself as i didn't think it was normal but in conversation last night this topic came up with the guys over a few beers and i found i DEFINITELY wasn't alone as 5 out or the 8 there are the same if not worse than me .
Im curious on both accounts here be it male and female perspectives .
Who else is guilty ... or not .
I look all the time... but haven't seen anyone who does it for me like my squinney......
why is it considered perverse to notice another human being who is sexually attractive?
Are we not supposed to be attractive to each other?
Just because someone is attractive, and you notice, doesnt make you perverted at all.. not even the thoughts that go with it. ;-) It makes you human, and normal.
I ALWAYS notice someone who is attractive, man OR woman, and so does my husband.
I think, the abnormal person, is the one who forces thier head down and completely attempts to ignore and beats themselves up for even LOOKING in the direction of someone...
does it count as touching if I touch myself while I look?
only if someone sees you...
you know..
its like candy
if noone sees you, it has no calories
lol , ill be driving with 1 of my friends pretty often and either he is so perverted that he cant admit it but its like " Mate , check this bird out ... sensational " and hes the one with his head down ashamed or too coprporate like to look .
Funny story though about this bloke and its totally off topic but just funny , they came over 1 night and as i say , he is a very conservative bloke so i know for a fact has watched some porn in the past as we all have either seen snippets or what have you but this night , i said to him lets pop the cable onto the porn channel ( i really wanted to see him embarrassed in front of his misses ... lol ) anyway hes like " no its ok , well pass it up " but his wife was curious as apparently she has NEVER seen anything like it so wanted to , anyway , we watched about 10 minutes and yes he was very uncomfortable but to cut a long story short , he got some that night and apparently got it good from reports . So he asks me where he can buy a movie from so i tell him a place down here in Melbourne and he goes . His wife rings me up and tells me wot im brainwashing him into a few days later and im like " he asked , i told him where to buy it and thats that " , she said " he told me you gave it to him " , i told her i didn't so saga goes on at his house and im very surprised as she didn't mind watching it when they were over . Next day i ring him up at work and ask him wot the story was , he says he was sooo embarrassed walking in to buy this movie that he just picked the first 1 he saw and thought it would be ok but after putting it on realised the content . I asked what he bought and he told me the title : " Ass F... orgy " .
I know its irrelevant and totally on a diff topic but just wanted to mention that as someone said the worry ones are the ones that keep their head down but in this case it was that and more ... lol .
So do I. There is nothing to beat sitting at a bar or cafe in the early evening sunshine, watching women... Just make sure the missus doesn't catch you though....
As my wife has often told me, the first look is fine, but it's the second look that will get me in trouble. :wink:
If you don't look you are dead inside.
Beauty is...beautiful and we appreciate it.
We are visual, sexual animals.
What sets us apart from primal animals is our ability to chose whether or not we act on our desires.
I look all the time.
I'm engaged, not dead.
But nothing in the world could induce me to either take it any further or to be so rude as to engage in ogling while my dearest is around.
I'm curious.... what do women look at when letching?
especially at the mall, the lady diane places me on a bench while she "shops" and I eyeballs.
Faces
biceps
chests
you name it
I seem to have the hardest time avoiding looking at a really broad, strong chest with some big, strong arms (not body-builder strong, normal range) in a tight t-shirt. (And there are more and more of those! I'm really starting to get that whole male line of "if you don't want me to look, then don't wear such revealing clothes!" reasoning.)
its natural to look....
for instance there is this hot looking driver who comes to my work and I gawk at him every time he comes in...I just cant help myself
*smacks hand* naughty Kiwi!!
Everyone looks.
For some reason the first things I look at in a guy are the eyes and lips, then my eyes travel on downwards.
A good build is always an eye catcher, as well as how well he fills his pants on both sides.
Oh and I'm with Sozobe on this, it's impossible not to look with all those tight clothes.
diggs , excellent question , wot do women look at and wot turns them on .
Me personally , i look straight at boobs and bum , it can virtually be any size but proportion counts ( i like women in size 12 - 14 - 16 ) .
From there i always end up going to the face as thats like the clincher , the body is always the attention getter but the face is the decider , theres nothing like a nice happy sexy looking face .