@Gala,
Mysteryman,
Since you have decided that:
"You can only speak about things that have actually happened to you."
Which I would think is the norm of an individual.
"Since that is the standard you want to apply to others, lets see if you can live by that."
When did I set a standard, if I voice my opinion? As an American of African, Native American and European Ancestry that was here before you or your ancestors came over from wherever your people are from, presumably European or other, I am speaking from "personal" history/experience, of which I know well. I don't remember asking anyone to feel sorry for my having been born Black or otherwise. Just related how I was treated, my parents and other persons, all Americans are/were treated differently from what some of you consider "All American", which I translate to be "white".
I did not state that anyone 40 or under is guilty of any of the experiences I've had or may have, as racism is certainly alive and well in the United States. It's evident by the number of people in Washington that are set against the 1st Black President of ever achieving any of the goals he set out to achieve.
It also goes without saying that so-called Democrats are as guilty as any Republican of the same, if you look at political affiliations. It is what it is. A new term has come into existance and it's whites calling blacks racists! I can be accused of bigotry, (favoring one race over another), but racism? Racism is the majority race instituting a system, programmed to keep one group or another of people, either of color/race/religion, in a separated and unequal system of life, in general.
I don't know of any instance in this country that Blacks have instituted a system of keeping whites or any race from living in their neighborhoods, attending their schools, acquiring employment, worshipping in their churches or even being allowed to be buried amongst us. Do you?
What I have described in what I hope are simple terms is a systemic, institutionalized, way of life for Blacks in these United States since 1619, when 22 people of color landed in Jamestown, Va. This after native Americans were seen as unable to toil in the tobacco and corn fields, whites had tried to force upon them. This, after land had already been confiscated from the native Americans, who are still battling for the return of certain lands in the Dakotas and elsewhere.
I have no idea where you're trying to place guilt or send someone on a guilt trip, because no matter the argument that some of you say, "well I never placed anyone in slavery", but you are a direct recipient for tis country having such a system. No, none of you are guilty, but like the holocaust of World War 2 and the incarceration of Japanese Americans during World War 2, you can't just tell me to "MOVE ON"! The Jews said "never again", built holocaust museums, erected monuments, formed philanthropic foundations, were compensated for their loss and art, jewelry and other artifacts returned, where proved, so I should "move on", huh?
Each of the Japanese interred were given a set amount of money, return of some land but not nearly compensated like the Jews were, no disrespect to anyone of Jewish ancestry. Nothing can compensate for what happened to the Jews of Europe or anywhere, for that matter. Nothing can compensate either for the senseless lynchings, rape of slave women, separation of children from their mothers, the selling of a husband for the purpose of mating him with other women, the justification, using the bible that slavery was okay with God and the loss of identity, language and history of ones self.
So it's not okay to be angry? Put your feet in the shoes of any Black man and see how you'd feel. For those who post that they have no memory of any of the above, go to the library and get a book on the history of slavery in America or read "Bury My Heart At Wounded Knee" and see what it feels like to have an entire country stolen from you. I am not a lawyer, but I rest my case.