@teenyboone,
teenyboone wrote:
You can think what you like and I don't have "woe is me, syndrome" either. In spite of "some" people having a "patriarchal" attitude that THEY know better how to direct people they think of as "lesser" than themselves out of an attitude that THEY are the privileged ones and you better not get in THEIR way, less they'll "put you in your place"!
I have had a good life in spite of racism, bigotry, sexism and other preconceived notions about who Blacks are and built in prejudices about people of other races in general. In spite of racism, prejudice and bigotry, I DON'T have a so-called CHIP on my shoulder! What, I don't buy the schitt some of you think and I should bow down and thank you, Massa? It's funny I have a boatload of white friends who feel the same way I do about race and prejudice in the US and I don't spend all day and night talking about it.
It's just in THIS group and THIS forum, a prevalence of so-called "conservative" people who speak for so-called "handkerchief head" blacks that they pat on the head for agreeing with their racist bullschitt, while they bow and scrape to be accepted. Whoopee! Well, Hillary Clinton will be President before THAT happens!
I don't follow all that you say. On the one hand, you seem to be saying you have succeeded and do not have a chip on your shoulder, but then other things you say seem to contradict that, you seem to approach people with a suspicion that they are racist until proven otherwise, example maporsche, if I have read some of this thread correctly. You also seem to think I am racist, that is the drift I get, but no, I do not think you have a shred of evidence. My parents were never racist and they never taught us that, and I do not believe in it, nor do I practice it.
Look, there is no doubt there is racism around, but I also think some of it is self perceived. Example, how many people have been fired from a job or did not get a job they applied for? Almost everyone I think. But if you have a pre-conceived notion that the reason you got fired or did not get a job was or is going to be due to your race, then there is a problem. It becomes a self fulfilling prophecy. No doubt race can be a factor for some employers, however the percentage of cases I think would be far far smaller than the percentage of recipents that might perceive it being due to race. I will cite an example, I knew a guy once that had a complex about being short. He was convinced that he got fired or never got jobs because of his height. However, I think it was way overblown in his mind, and his perception was not reality. I think the same can happen with race if children are taught that they will be discriminated against at every turn. Sure there is some out there, but I do not think it is profitable to be looking for it, or to be attributing every problem that you have as it being automatically the cause, because it ends up enlarging the scope of a manageable problem into a much larger one in the mind.
Anyway, thanks for exchanging ideas on this, I perceive you as being a pretty reasonable person actually, and also that you might be in a bit of a state of flux in your political views. Therefore I am hopeful I can sway you a little bit toward the conservative side, by pointing out to you the logical fallacies that exist on the left, that I think you may be seeing to some extent but are not yet willing to admit because it may also mean forsaking what your parents, family, or friends may have believed or still believe.