Quote:Tell us a bit about your new girl friend. What is she like? What does she like to do?
We enjoy similar leisure activities: going to the movies, theatre, music, going out to eat, walking around nyc, discovering new restaurants.. in that sense we are very compatible. But sometimes I get frustrated with her b/c I have a much more outgoing personality than she does. I am a very talky person and love when the person I am with can match me like that. She is shy, a bit socially introverted, has told me some things about her past that made me scratch my head. Sometimes I feel like I am pulling teeth - constantly asking her questions to get her to talk open endedly. I do wish she had more of a sense of humor and a stronger personality.. but then again, I've never gone out with anyone who had either of those traits, which is why i was never interested in anyone I went out with. Thankfully, all of my friends exhibit those qualities.
I really want to give this a shot, we do have a nice time together, have a lot in common and have agreeable work/social schedules. She's a homebody like I am, doesn't drink much or go to bars/clubs, etc.
But then there's that nagging part of me that's like "what the hell?" when she tells me stories from her past (or exhibits over the top OCD like behavior in restaurants -- like, she pulled out one of those small white ear plug things cause the woman next to us at a diner was slurping her soup -- wtf??)