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Hey, Snipe!
You're probably done with your essay, but here's some feedback, for what it's worth:
Quote:Sometimes; however, we could only wonder why people act the way they do, or treat their family members in particular ways.
This sentence doesn't work, but the idea seems good. We can only wonder why people act as they do, but we can learn more about what we think by comparing and contrasting people in similar circumstances.
Why not get to the point: "We can only wonder why people act the way they do."
So you could then say you were going to compare mothers and daughters to see what might motivate them. That sounds interesting!
My second concern with the essay: You need criteria in order to make a comparison/contrast in the rest of the essay. For lack of criteria, the essay doesn't cleanly compare. With more focus on a few main criteria it could show more interesting thoughts and insights about why people behave the ways they do.
We miss out on cool thoughts from you when the comparison is not focused.
Not a big deal. People write zillions of essays. But I wish I could see another draft with criteria laid out and you following it--because I really do CARE what you think about why mothers act the way they do and so on.
Last, if you had your comparison laid out cleanly, I would suggest from this draft that you make more transitions between paragraphs so readers could follow a logical flow of ideas and shifts of attention.
*****Example:
What if I were comparing cars: The Cadillac (model) and the Mazda (model)?
The first things I would need would be standards for comparison:
engine performance
mileage
maintenance
body structure
options
Boiling that list down to three criteria, it might be performance (engine performance, mileage), maintenance (predictable repairs in that model, cost, frequency), and standard options (leather seats, moon roof, tach, etc.). Then I could look up, write down, and assemble facts or details that tell _more_ about each of those criteria, so I could compare the information I collected as a body.
Criteria:
performance
maintenance
options
performance--road tests show the Mazda handled at xxx and the Cadillac xxx, but that the Cadillac had more horsepower than the Mazda (compare figures), which helps in passing. The Cadillac had a smoother ride than the Mazda and the steering on the Mazda was tighter than that of the Cadillac. etc., etc.
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So back to the stories. I hope I have illustrated a second level of organization--the mother level and the daughter level--as beckoning focus on standards for comparison. The comparison information comes from the text or from information about THEM, not about your impressions of them.
You have mentioned some criteria and I would urge you to make them more clear and up-front in your organization.
What might you regard as basic behavior you would want to compare?
Criteria I see in your last draft:
Nurture/selfishness
Attention to appearance
Love and friendship?
Earthiness? Self-sufficiency?
These criteria point you to seek more details about what the mothers and daughters _do_ in the stories related to them, and after the comparison you could better address what might be motivating them. Right now your criteria are embedded but could be made more clear. You might have different criteria for mothers and daughters but they will probably interrelate.
Next, were there unique ways not listed in the criteria in which the mothers/families are strikingly similar or different? This is important for getting out of the box--an element of critical thinking and stepping away. Maybe having a family member with scars is a different situation/experience for one family than for the other. But behavior might classify as "loyalty" or "love."
Answering criteria about mother and daughter behavior from the stories PLUS the out-of-box observations will lead you into later thoughts. It will help you clarify your ideas about main things in the story and set you up to infer MOTIVATION, which is your question--Why do people act as they do? You will probably make bigger connections after that. Boy would I love to read what you had to say about that!
In sum, to make comparisons, focus on uniform criteria to set yourself up to answer bigger questions. You excellently chose a main structure of comparing mothers and daughters, but your comparison needs sorting out.
Practicing ways to compare is much better than just writing a paper that fits an assignment. Writing about these stories can open a new world to you or make your normal world more interesting.
Cheers.
Sally