Joe Nation wrote: . . .
Joe(If you say anything like 'mysterious ways' then I'll get angry)Nation
Joe(I love humans, they are so natural)Nation
Let's get back for a moment to your empathy for the suffering of children:
If you, as a parent, had a child suffering from a debilitating condition, and knew that a certain surgery would give your child a chance for a normal life, would you allow the child to undergo it?
Would you allow surgery even though it might cause considerable pain?
No doubt most of us would.
And, after your child recovers and experiences a few years of pain free and happy life woud he or she thank you for your decision or revile you for the long forgotten pain?
God has even greater empathy for his creations. Think of all the people who have died the most terrible deaths. Do you believe there are any who, upon being resurrected to the prospect of eternal pain free life, would rather curse God than thank him for the second chance?
I know you don't believe in God, so this sounds totally far fetched. But it is what the bible promises. We were created for earthly life and that is the purpose God will see fulfilled. Those who die, no matter how wicked, will simply cease to exist. No hell. No roasting, toasting, baking or broiling. No consciousness. No nothing.