Pentacle, I know what you're saying, 'cause I suspect we are sort of in the same boat here. I could use to listen up as much as you.
Sometimes so-called 'laid-back' people drive me up the bend and around again. Such is life.
I guess it all depends on whether the person is actually
withholding important information or intimacy or not.
If they they just go with the flow, by personality, but are loving and decent and all that good stuff, I deal.
If I truly, truly feel that they don't care about important things, then it's not worth my anguish.
What's the deal with your friends? Are they slacking as friends maybe?
It's kind of funny, to be attracted to the laid back ones, bc of their 'rock-like' constancy, and then to get aggrivated by that very trait.
Maybe want it both ways; which isn't too realistic.
Ok...sorry...I'll stop my tangeants on your thread Penty! I'd like to hear what others have to say.