Wife wants a baby

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I need some advice out there. My wife really wants a baby and we have been trying for a while now. We've been married for about 2 years and now we are going to the doctor to get some help. Today my wife's younger sister, who is not married and with a guy she loves but is not ready to marry her(at least we think) found out she was pregnant. I've tried to encourage my wife by telling her that we will soon have a child but she is really depressed and almost angry because we waited until we got married and everything, and now her sister who was not married is having a child. Any advice on how to cheer up the wife?

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I dont think the being married/not being married thing has anything to do with it.
There can be no blame for waiting til your married to get pregnant.

Id imagine stressing herself out about the situation isnt doing her hormones any good hence may be effecting your chances to get pregnant.

Try not to stress out.

She will be an Auntie to her sisters sproglet and if you havnt got pregnant by its birth she can use it as practice.

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mrpeterson,

I can sympathize with your situation. I cannot have children and it was a difficult road for me to come to the place of accepting that. Coming from a woman's perspective the best advice I can give you is to listen to her and support her. Knowing you love her and are willing to walk through this with her will probably be the healing ointment she needs. Don't try to fix her feelings. It will only isolate her if you do and make her feel like you don't understand or care how she is feeling. Be patient. Sometimes it takes women awhile to work through their feelings.

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I agree with Hep.

As much as you may want to, this is not something you can fix.

More important, be there to listen, just listen.

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Excellent advice from heph and Chai. Right now your wife is emotional, irrational and feeling cheated and there's nothing that you can do about that. She has to work her way through these feelings, as hep said, and the absolute best thing that you can do, the only thing really, is to be patient and support her. Good luck to you.

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I think you need to wait and see if there is a medical reason for not getting pregnant. Why does your wife think it has something to do with waiting for marriage? Did you wait 20 years and now she is too old? Chances are good you can have a baby, maybe with the help of a fertility doctor if there is a problem. You should also consider that there are many babies in this world that need a good, loving home if you find you cannot have a biological child.

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i think chinese physic can deal your problem,and your wife will have a lovely baby ,

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(sorry ,my english is poor but i want to do my best give u a hand )
in china,these are some wedded couples still have no baby ,but as i know ,after theraphy by chinese physic (madicine also ) many couples have their babies.
chinese physic come from nature ,and use natural theraphy do no harm to boby at all ,and after chinese physic theraphy it can give u and your wife a lovely baby ,trust me ,it is right Smile

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I agree that the best thing you can do right now is simply be there for your wife, without judgement.

Good luck with everything.

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