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Sun 5 Feb, 2006 01:07 pm
I've started seeing someone for a little over a month now.. and well, he's my first boyfriend really, and I haven't had alot of experience with sex or anything sexual... He gets that this is my first relationship and he says that he'll wait until i'm ready to do anything..
but i guess i'm just insecure that my lack of experience might turn him off when we do start to get closer..
I know that eventually with time I want us to get closer, but I want to know more about what it is before i actually do anything, I guess it's kinda like me educating myself about an issue instead of going into it blindly..
So I was wondering if anyone here had any info about sex education.. but not just actual conventional sex, but the other forms of it like phone sex, oral sex or internet sex..
Any help would be appreciated, thanks
Wow. Big question.
Do you have any more specific questions that we can start with?
The book "Our Bodies, Ourselves" is a good resource for this kind of thing.
Planned Parenthood, too:
www.plannedparenthood.org
They have a link to this site, looks interesting:
www.getthefacts.org
That's just to get you started. Big subject, do let us know if you have specific questions.
I would not worry about your boyfriend being turned off that you are a virgin. Most likely it will be big turn on and ego thing for him to de-flower you and teach you about sex. As far as oral sex goes, you can begin practicing with a Keilbasa.
At the risk of sounding like a 5 year old.. what's a Keilbasa?
I guess if I were to be more specific.. as embarrassing as this is to ask, I was more wondering about information regarding things with sexuality.. like masturbation and the like.. is it possible to find such info online? or is this something that you need a friend to tell you in person?
english rose, if you are not too embarrassed to ask, you are old enough to know. So ask away. And if you have specific questions, be specific. We can't help you if we don't know what you do and do not know.
Otherwise, I don't think you should do anything you are uncomfortable just talking about.
Sex is normal and natural and while our bodies might tell us we are ready (being horney) that doesn't mean our minds our ready. I know you've probably heard it a thousand times but sex is a big deal, especially when you are young.
So ask any questions you want here. We are a very candid group and would be more than happy to help you educate yourself. If you are going to do this, the best defense is to be armed with information.
Looks like I got here just in time.
This is the best thread in the history of threads ever.
English Rose - we will tell you anything you want to know, but you will also have to deal with the horny geezers that tend to show up a thread like this.
(I won't name any names, but check out the two posts above this one for a clue)
English-Rose wrote:At the risk of sounding like a 5 year old.. what's a Keilbasa?
Let's start with the easy stuff. Keilbasa is Polish sausage available at most food markets, and just to let you know Roxanne was making a joke - I think.
Geezer!?!?!
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English-rose, First of all what is the nature of this relationship. It looks like you are asking for graphic sexual advice.
You mentioned phone and internet sex.May I ask, have you seen this boyfriend in person? and how old are you?
There is alot attached to sex then just the sex and you don't want to learn the hard way. Just ask the ladies here. The very first lesson is; you must be able to trust your partner even if it is just a very temporary encounter (casual sex).
I am a little confused as to whether or not English Rose is old enough to be inquiring to strangers about this topic. What about your mom or dad? And if you have access to the web, you have access to sex. Anything you want to know is right here at your fingertips, so what do you need us for?
Maybe a2kers have knowledge of out-of-the-ordinary
sex practices.
Green Witch wrote:English Rose - we will tell you anything you want to know, but you will also have to deal with the horny geezers that tend to show up a thread like this.
I wonder who she was talking about?
Say, any tits pop out yet?
Hah!! LMAO....You pervy old coot.
I think having a good 'discussion' over the phone, or via the internet can be very entertaining and extremely worthwhile for both parties involved!
Although to make it really worth your while you should be spending lots of time describing the scene and exactly what is happening etc....
I think used as the right kind of tool it can be very helpful in a relationship, and you can learn alot about each other's likes and dislikes without having to fulfill it physically if you do not feel you want to yet...
Better seduction
I am suprised,
Do we have to teach ladies the way to make better seduction and be erotic to their men everytime.A woman is love and a man must make the best form of love to her.I would personally love to make a lady feel like a queen by making the best for her.
What does a woman needs to feel anyway..
Kielbasa is a Polish Sausage. You need to learn how to overcome the gag reflex. They don't call me Linda Lovelace for nothing!
You could try with a chipolata first, and work up...
The temptation to chew may be overpowering however, which if translated to your partner's piece would be detrimental to the relationship.
My advice - lark about a bit on the net to see where you both stand on the issue. If it leaves a nasty taste in your mouth, don't go further....
One advantage of internet 'relations' is the lack of a wet patch to roll onto...
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